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I got my hairdressers telephone number (IWe are 21) She gave me her number but it was wrong, She found out so she gave her number again to someone that I knew that cut hair at her a week later. she went on holiday alone for a week so I did not call her. (Heard from friend shes' going way) Yesterday night I called her and she sounded suprised and clad to hear from me? I aksed her if we can go for cappacino this weekend but she can't her sisters baby batism in on. She said but next weekend I am free so I asked how about Thursday. She said yes but I'll sms you the morning just to confim. She then named a fancy/cool resturant in our town for us to go to our first meeting/date and said we can meet there. 1. Does she sound intrested? 2. She sounds and looks like she's a independant women since she go on holdiday alone and said we must each drive there and meet up. How do I greet her then when we meet at the place? 3. Is it then a date? 4. Need advice on all 3 points. thx

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  1. 1.yes she is intrested 2.a rose to greet her 3.yes its a date
  2. yes she is interested or she wouldn't be going. when you meet just be yourself, say hi and smile, don't come on to heavy OK, this can be a turn off big time. You wont really know if its a date or not until you have been there a while you will get a sense of how she is feeling, and if she is interested or not. Just be yourself and see how it goes.
  3. 1 ya sure she sounds interested. but she just a little busy. She was most likely suprised you called her after so long because she was awaiting your call and no call.. She stocked now! Busy lady so she needs time to fit you in .. once you get your first date over with she'll include you more if it goes all well. Oh ya and call her somtimes just to chat to ensure her that your interested! 2 When you meet up just let it flow naturaly. Afterall you can't force somone to like you. Don't put on an act eaither, just be yourself. I hate fake guys.. it's a big turnoff for any girl. Do give her some compliments when your on your date however just don't overwhelm her with dozens of comments. Give her a hug when you first meet and say somthing sweat like your looking pretty tonight/today. Good luck! 3 It's a date.. and a first date so it's important you keep on a good attitude and a big smile on your face. Have fun that's all thats needed really. A big NONO is never check out other girls on the first date until you guys are officaially going out and keep your eyes off her boobs ass w,e. This date will also tell weather you'll become closer as friends or lovers so be focused. Good luck! (L)kurin
  4. it s hard to tell whether she s interested in or not u gotta be more specific
  5. 1. Yes she's def interested. 2. Just smile and say hello. Handshakes too formal and a kiss might be a bit awkward. Maybe kiss her cheek when you leave. 3. Sounds like a pre date as it's just coffee. Time to see if you really like each other and get along. If you are both happy by the end of it, ask her if she'd like to go out to dinner one night. That will DEF be a date. Just relax, if she smiles a lot and leans toward you lots then she is keen on you. Good luck.
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