Advice would be appreciated!?
Recently, I've been seeing a man, a man who is living with another woman. He's the mother of her child. And from what he says, they're unhappy together, we weren't in anything serious, so I accepted a date invitation from another man. A man who was free, and single, without any restrictions. The first man found out about the date, questioned me about it, and I told him that yes, I was planning on going, and he became angry, and told me that if I was going to be with him, he wanted me to be with ONLY him. And we spoke briefly about it, and I don't at all think it's fair for him to ask me to commit to him while he's got another woman at home. A homewrecker or whore, I'm not, this man approached me, and I didn't find out about his girlfriend and child until after I'd developed feelings for him. But his situation creates special circumstances, and I deserve better than to commit to someone, and always be second best. How do I explain this to him?
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- Just tell him that he should of told you from the start that he was with someone else.Right there you know that you cannot trust him.He might do the same to you.You have a right to be happy and see whom ever you wish.Just tell him to go home and live his life. You didn't lie to him,so you shouldn't feel guilty for being with someone else,with no other ties. Good luck.I hope it works out for you.Plus he sounds very possessive, imagine if you lived with him.
