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I have a strange situation with my "friend" and need your advice. Please help!?

I have a friend who I've been dating for 4 months as of today. 6 weeks ago I lost my job & then 4 weeks ago he lost his job and asked if he could come to California with me. So we are now in California and live together. I consider him my boyfriend and don't want to date other people. He is on myspace frequently talking to other women and says he is just trying to make new friends in our new area. He also says that I'm not his girlfriend, that both of us are free to see other people, and that he is not looking for a girlfriend. He isn't seeing other people and is home with me every night. He doesn't have any money so assume that will change when he does. Yesterday he said that I need to make a choice if I want to continue seeing him with the situation as is and me not being his girlfriend or if he should go back to WA. He says he doesn't want to get hurt so is holding his feelings back and that we can stick it out and see if his feelings get stronger. What should I do?

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  1. Send him home.
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