IHow do you know if a guy is just in it for the sex. I want answers from guys, but ladies feel free to answer
I'm a woman "seeing a guy" Just started dating after bad break up Finished college Not that experienced Good intution doesn't want to get burned Like guy...a lot I like sex But I like him enough to want to see him afterwards So guys...any advice besides just asking him...signs perhaps
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- make him wait for sex for like a year.. if hes still with you and he hasn't been cheating on you, then hes probably in it for you, not for the sex xD
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- If all you do is have sex when you meet, the he is in it for the sex... if he wants to take you out in public then he enjoys your company also.
- If he doesn't ask you questions like, "how was your day?" or asking you your opinion on things, then chances are he just wants sex... at least, nothing serious anyway. If all he wants to do is ask you when he is going to see you... quick phonecalls... bad sign. Always going places out of the way, without alot of people around (I am talking places that aren't social. not creepy places). Not meeting his friends, or doesn't include you in his friends' circles... bad sign. Hope that helps.
- If he asks you to go to his place. Simple
- If he hangs around, calls you, looks relaxed around you, and is not out to just impress you but likes being around you, those are some signs. Just remember if you can be good friends then you can have a good relationship.
- Does he spend non sexual time with you? Take you out to dinner, movies, just talk? If not, then he's in it for the sex. And don't kid yourself!
- If all he wants to do is have sex with you, talk about sex and stay in bed- it just might give you a clue! lol
- I am female but if all he talks about is sex then that is probably all he wants-you will know for sure after-wards
