need advice right now?
I am in atlanta and my boyfriend is in Chicago. We just had a falling out and things are not on good terms with us because of it. I have been trying to be patient and supportive of him while he deals with various family and personal issues but since he is being pulled in every direction he is short with me and I am growing tired of it and want it to all come to an end. I love him though because of the man that he is. Sometimes good people have a couple hard knocks you know. My question is should I fly him down to see me to spend a evening at the hotel that we started dating at together to recconect? Or do I let it ride? I have a free airline ticket to use and we have been dating for a 1 1/2 years. Is this appropriate for a woman to do or no? He really could use a break and get out of town and we really need to see each other our relationship is in trouble
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- I think that flying him down could give you an oppurtunity to see what he is really thinking or feeling and it if he is worth you continuing a relationship with. If he gets down there and acts like a complete fool than he may not be worth trying to hold on to. Seeing you should ease up some of his tension, because he is not directly in the situations that are causing him to be so irritable. If it doesn't than its probably not those things. Give him a chance.
- LOOK IF YOU TWO TRUELY CARE ABOUT EACH OTHER DON'T LET SMALL DRAWBACKS DESTROY YOUR FEELINGS FOR EACH OTHER. I'LL TELL WHAT I WAS TOLD YEARS AGO: DON'T BE DISCOURAGED BY THINGS NIETHER ONE OF HAVE CONTROL OVER INSTEAD FOCUS ON THE THINGS THAT YOU CAN SOLVE SOMETIMES ONE HAS TO CHALLAGE WHAT IS AND IS NOT IMPOSSIBLE.
- Hi, I think that is a good ideal maybe you showing up would re-leave a lot of the stress he is having. I think it is a very good ideal. Get together and get your love going and become a couple again and just maybe you can help him with some of the things he is going threw. That way you can really see what he has been going threw. A person that a person really loves is always the one that will get yell at. That my friend is only nature. So what are you waiting for!!! Get those bags pack and get on that plane A.S.A.P. Be Happy.. Lol poppy1
