advice about this guy i met online from a dating site....?

I need advice about this guy.. Ok, I'm on one of those Catholic match dating site and one guy sent me a message about 3 month ago but in that moment I was dating somebody else and I did not pay attention on his message, almost 1 month ago i email him asking if he still free? and if he likes my pictures ? he answers me..saying- hi and how are you? and how was your day? and for 1 week dissappear I did not hear anything about him until last week he sent me another e-mail asking me how was my day ? how is my job? just hello and no more...I answer his e-mail and he dissappear again... Today he sent me another e-mail saying sorry I had a cold...and how is your day going? and, are you going to celebrate St. patrick's day? I think are stupid questions...I think he is dating another women but maybe he is not sure and he wants to still keeping me in touch like a leash I do not know what I SHOULD do ? if I should not answer anymore his e-mails or... some advice please! thanks!

Public Comments

1. Forget him,don't reply to any more if his emails.
2. Seeing someone else or is he married and can only get to the computer once in awhile..... I suggest you move on and see what else is out there.... If he was really interested, he'd be sending emails, wanting to call you, meet, etc.....
3. Chile, move on. Why are women of today so deperate. Men find that very unattractive. Where is your self esteem?
4. Who dates someone on the internet not knowing them in person theyre freinds and family what theyre abut you cant really know anyone online no one is honest these days..Forget him
5. This is why online dating is so awkward. You did the same thing though! Maybe he figured that you weren't interested, so why should he waste his time just trying to talk to you? He might not want to seem too desperate. I suggest telling him to call you sometime.. or giving a few more emails and then release him.
6. Make it clear what you are looking for and if he can not live up to what you want...move on.
7. He is obviously not interested in you. Guys don't waist so much time not saying anything "serious" and relevant to a woman they are interested in. Knowing that you only met online he should have tons of questions for you, he should want to know more about you. If he's not taking the time to ask you anything or to tell you about himself he is clearly not interested in you at all. He might be replying simply because he's polite and think it's the right thing to do or maybe he wants to keep that "window" open just in case... You should know exactly what you expect from this guy at this point. Do you really want to pursue a relationship with him? If the answer is yes, then you should write him and tell him that either you start "talking" seriously or you stop talking completely. You should ask him if he's interested in having this relationship with you or not. If he says yes then you should tell him that the emails need to be more relevant and less generic. If he says no or tries not to answer I think you should move on. At this point you don't have a relationship yet so it's easier to stop now. I'm pretty sure that the fact that you did not reply his first message from the start did tell him that you were not that much interested in him either. I don't know whether you're using a paid or a free site but you should keep in mind that on dating sites people usually send generic messages to as many contacts as possible hoping to get a reply. Maybe that's what he did and he was not specifically interested in you but just interested in finding someone who would reply to him. Of course there is the possibility that he has someone in his life and is no longer interested in meeting women online.