Giving my boyfriend a free pass?? advice pleaseee?
Hi id like advice on this from men and women please!! ok so me and my boyfriend are pretty serious, been dating for about a year and i see ALOT of potential in this guy for our future. the only problem is that he was a virgin when we met and i...wasnt...there have NEVER been any problems with me having more experience than him in our relationship ever! but we are planning a future together and i want him to have a sort of 'free pass' that he can use for a month and sleep with any girl he wants with no commitment, meaning no dating other women or anything like that, just sex....am i crazyyy? We both know the difference between love and sex and i feel like itd benefit both of us in the future if he sleep around a bit now before we get married and have kids and then he cheats or something. Im pretty much sure i want him to do this but id just like know other peoples opinions. If youve been in the same situation thatd be even better! Thanx! xoxo
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- if you both are totally cool with it then it sounds good just dont be surprised if it doesnt workout, you are taking a risk by letting him go free no matter how commited you both think you are. hopefully it will all go according to plan
- i really hater to say this, being a guy and all, but ARE YOU NUTS? no free pass. it just might wet his appitite that might cause him to cheat in the future. sorry. it a guy thing, give an inch, take a mile.
- Girl, if you trust him, then go for it. But make DAMNED sure he uses condomns. If you are sure you can handle any possible side effects (like him falling in love with someone else) sure. That is one helluva dangerous tight rope to walk if you are a seriously monogomous person though.
- omg i had a similar problem...... expect it wasnt sex =\ when we were dating, my gf couldnt decide between me n this other guy so then i was like go out with him then pick... idk i guess i just wanted him to have a fair chance n sure yea if u want go for it... but he'd probably stick with u n wont cheat cuz u enough women for him =)
