want some advice on dating from guys! I need help.?

Hello!, about a month ago I went out on a date with a guy I met online, we got along great really felt a connection, chatted a lot for a bit then I asked him to go out on another date. He said he was busy but really wanted to see me again and would let me know when he had some time. Now he just sends me a few messages here and there, nothing about going out again. Was it a mistake for me to ask him out? Did I scared him off or something? I really do like him, and don't know if I shoud just tell him that and see what happens? I have heard many times that men like to pursue women, so does it mean that if a girl starts to go after a guy that would be a turn off? Any advice would be apreciated.

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1. Don't humiliate yourself.
2. Darling, he just didn't like you that much. It's not too complex. Move on..
3. this guy probably liked the idea of meeting a woman on the net did it and now he's on to someone else sorry to be so blunt but it's probably not about you it's about him and his issue i don't know anyone who has met anyone on the net but i think that it would be a mistake to spend too much time dwelling on this issue just let him know that you are available to talk to and then let him make the next move. hope this helps, Nick
4. if he really likes you he would definitely jump to that invitation... but i guess he was just polite and nice and made you feel great when you guys went out... i doubt if he really is intersted in you...plus HONEY!!!!! you guys just went out once...so y are you dwelling in this piece of fake emotion that u feel for him??? trust me you would be feeling the same exact thing to the next guy u meet on line.. i just hope the next one has more free time and would like u 2x as much as u like him.
5. Hi! It's not a mistake to ask him out. Men are often flattered when a woman asks them out. I don't know of any man who'd be scared by this. If the feeling is mutual, he'll jump at the chance to go out with you again. But if he's unresponsive, I'm afraid it means he doesn't feel the same way about you.
6. Tell him you like him and you want to know if he feels the same or if you are wasting your time?Be honest its seems the date when well so if he does like you he may just be shy and if he doesn't really like you he maybe trying to tell you in a polite way too chicken to give you a total blow off!So my advice just ask that way you know where you stand instead of recking your head with thoughts about what he thinks!!And see where you can take it from there?....good luck hope you get your second date!
7. Nah, He's just not that into you... It's time to move on. If he really wanted to be with you, he'd make time. I would say it's a lack of interest on his part. It wasn't a mistake to ask him out. You'd never know if he was into you if you had not asked him out... It's just the way the game is played. If you want to pursue him go for it, but long term I don't think he's the one.