should i set him free or not?

i'm actually confused because i'm dating a guy whom i just broke up but we still act as if we are still together. we go out 4times a month, we have rules with each other, we say i love you, but we don't kiss (we didn't kiss yet. lol) ya, so am i his gf or something?? 2nd thing. this saturday, he said that he is going to fck a girl. i know that some of you will say that that is just normal bcoz wen u get marrd blablabla. its his first time and it hurts me alot to see him with another girl in bed. should i let him do it and avoid him? or stop him? if i'll stop him, how? he is like 50 kilometers away from me. our only communication is just our cellphones. advice me please and thank you. have a good day. i've alread poored out my feelings, still! i'm still confsed if its us or not. i'm not the type of girl who goes first, i usualy wait for the guy's decision. so we were having a fun texting then all of the sudden he texted me hes going to fck. i replied showng that im neutral. it ended there. after a few hrs i textd him, 'don't come to our house on sat, i'll just spoil your fun time, bok(endearment for pig)' did i do the right thing? it's like 3 in the morning here and i still couldn't sleep becoz he wil FCK.

Public Comments

1. Tell him your feelings poor it all out!
2. Basically your his girlfriend. Tell him to make it official or youll stop seein him.
3. If he does it, then screw him, hes not worth it. Find someone else. There is angry words, and then there is following through with those words. The people who follow through, in my opinion, are the ones who ultimately lose. Get someone else. You are worth it!
4. The reason why it hurts is because you are still attached to him emotionally because you never really broke up. You didn't stop having contact with him. I think you should just let it go because unless he has a change of heart you'll just be miserable.
5. i think u should let him go bcuz he is a perv 4 tellin u that and he should keep that to himself, and if he really luvs u he would n't want to bo with any girl bsides u.
6. And you want to be with this guy? You shouldnt. He sounds like he's not ready for a gf or something serisouy with you. If he wants to do that, let him.. He's bound to do it!
7. im in a relationship we dont kiss either you know some do and some dont if you told you he going to have sex with someone dont stop him at all thats what he want the ol sayin 'everything look good not good for you ' or he can also sayin that see how you going to act but i wouldnt put nothing pass him by no means but he wouldnt tell me nothing like that i will drop him like a bad habit with a smile