Need advice ASAP!?

I've been dating this guy for 6 years. He has never once even thought about marriage. In this time ..we have 2 children together. I made alot of bad choices in this relationship, #1 having sex before marrige, #2 moving in with him, # 3 allowing it for this long. I know he's probably thinking "Why by buy the cow..When the milk is for free"..Well Im cant take it anymore...I've gotta put my foot down!!..We stay together right now..but at the end of the lease which is in a few months..I've already let him know that he's gotta go!!!.. Oh ..and to add to it we constantly argrue ..pretty much on a day to day basis. I've let him know that I want to change my life around..Im not going to be shaking up anymore..Im going to get closer & closer to God! and make a new beggining for my self. He says he's not going anywhere and that He loves me. So the ? is am I wrong for let him go at the end of the lease. Please give me your feedback.

Public Comments

1. god isnt going to be the father for your two children you need to reconsile for their sake
2. No you supposed to family second, and god first. or thats whats in the bible anyway. you should give it a break... imn going thru the same thing.
3. If he's paying for half the lease then keep him around, but if not kick his ass to the curb!
4. welllllll... do you love him? do your kids love him? do you love your kids? think what is the best for your kids.
5. i'm sorry but your the one who made the bad choices. don't you want your children to have their father watch them grow up and be there when they come home from school? you should think about it. you might have just had some rough patches but i'm sure you two can work things out. and talk to him about marriage, to have two kids with him and move in together you have to love him. maybe your just angry that he never wanted to marry you after you two have been threw all this. and hey he stayed with you this long he's not going anywhere. just think about it. but if you still dont' want him to stay with you then kick him out but if you do like him even the slightest bit then you should let him stay with you and your children. hope i helped bye Cherry, good luck with you two, i'm sure you'll make the right choice, just think about your kids and then yourself.
6. i think u shudnt let him go...is he interested in other girl>??or cheating..if he's not cheating u...thn whats the prob?? try to convince him to get married.... In Islam its clearly said its illegal to have sex before marriage..and those who dont follow this..usually gets into trouble!
7. This a complex questions, How much do love the guy.. Is he meeting all of your, and your little families needs at this time, and how is he with the kids??? Is he there for you now.. Does he have a good job and will he be a good provider for you and the kids.... You have to be straight up with the guy... Don't throw ultimatums unless you are capable of living with the results,good or bad.. What is your financial situation... And does he also accept your faith in the Lord, above???