can i have some advice on this please?
ok...i have been dating this guy for a year now and i really care about him and love him. i am going to be going to tennessee for 6 months and he thinks we should just be on break for right now because of that...plus this past year hasnt been the easiest one...not because of us but things that stood in our way. now usually i dont believe in "breaks" because i think they are a guilt free way to see other people...but he is different i trust him...and he has proven himself over and over again in this area...we both decided that we need a fresh start if we want this relationship to go long term...so what i am asking is...do you think this will work?? i mean of course without knowing our history together...he loves me and i love him...and we both want to be together but both agree we need a fresh start and now is a better opportunity than any other time
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- Only you can answer this question because only you know your man...The best advise that can be given is to trust him and yourself to want to make it work after the six month seperation.
- I would take a break.
- He is interested in meeting other woman. There is no such thing as a break. If you were married would you both go on a break? No. This relationship is in trouble and not where you think it is going. End it now, and stop kidding each other.
- I think being a part for awhile helps to sharpen a relationship's perspective. It'll either make you or break you, so to speak. So call it a "break" if you want but either way, you won't be together for awhile. Once you reunite, you'll know for sure if the relationship has any merit. Good luck!
- so why do you need to start a fresh when its just the same people(the two of you) why dont you just move on with what you already have and make ir better? I dont think u need to start anything a fresh you dont even need a break.........How do you break from someone u like....................if u are far from him u can srnd mails, text or whatever but you dont break up
