What would you do, please advice with ex? Thanks!?

I was dating a guy for a year and a half, had been going really well, but guess I took him for granted last few weeks, pressing for us to get married move in together, generally got too comfortable. Out of the blue he broke up, I was devastated and missed him but gave him his space. I never heard from him in 6 months and recently in moment of weakness emailed him saying I had missed him and maybe we should catch up. He replied a few hours later telling me he was sorry for the delay, mail system down and the dates and time he was free saying that would be good. Bit nervous though and haven't replied. Don't want to feel rejection again, at the same time, I do miss him and feel like I never got closure, our relationship was left hanging in mid air. Can you advise? Thank you so much! :O)

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1. When you broke up, he didn't state any reasons why? Just go out with him and let the natural vibes flow and if it can be brought up without putting pressure on him LATER ON, not right away when you get together, like later on, down the road after a few more times, then generally ask him what happened the first time between the two of you. Good luck!
2. Well, your just catching up if I didnt read that wrong, so I wouldnt worry about rejection, and if you really like him you should ask him again, sorry but heart breaks are something thats bound to happen in life :( he could be the one and if you dont ask you wont find out
3. u know u should tell him that u really need him right now and u still love him dont forcefully do things on him neither make him do things which he is forced upon
4. I thnk he gave a crap excuse bout mail system. I mean 6 months! but u shud give it a try. Yr relationship mite be different cos u wont take hm for granted anymore. n if u dnt thn thru yr life u wud be sayn wot if. if u do end up breakn up thn at least u knw its a lost cause and can move on cos u wont be able to move on if u dnt give anotha try. yr heart wud be sayn wot if all the time. Live in peace n try again. Gud luck
5. Im so sorry that ur relationship had such a sudden ending, it must have been so hard on u! But i think this is a step in the right direction! Obviously ur going to be nervous, and u have every right to be, but I think u need to seize this opportunity just to find that closure uv been missing. I also think its a positive sign that he responded to your email, if he didn't want to see u he could have just ignored it, so thats a good sign. Its really important though not to get ur hopes up, perhaps decide before u reply to him y u really want to see him. Is it because u miss him and just want to find some closure? Or maybe because ur hoping u could get back together? You wont feel rejected if u dont get ur hopes up! I personally think u should go and see him and even if it becomes clear u wont be getting back together, u can maybe become close friends. Either way whatever happens I think u'll feel more settled after seeing him and the closure will help u move on (if necessary) Well good luck!! And just so you know i think your incredibly strong for dealing with the whole situation so well!!! xox
6. if you are not certain why you emailed him how can you get an accurate answer to your question. The better question to ask is what does he want,
7. mail system down,. yeah right. sorry but thats a cover up time to just move on. something has happend and he dont know how to either tell you the >> bad news on maybe his health. or iam just not sure. you might have to take him out and have a one on one. get to the bottom of it.
8. Yes,it can be quiet akward.If you are already over him then just let him know,tell him you were having a moment of weakness,and thats all it was.However if you still have feelings for this guy then meet up with him and,try to talk things over before its too late.See what he has too say about him walking out on the relationship,6-months ago.Ask him if he got cold--feet? Are was he attracted too someone else that you were unaware of. You may be surprised,at what he has too say. Ask all the questions that you need answered. Tell him that you what him too be honest with you,and that your not willing,too go through another relationship only to have him walk out on you again. Listen carefully at what he has too say.And then make a good educated guess,as too what he really means,understand.Good Luck and God Bless I hope everthing works out for you either way.