GIRLS...what would get you to think about missing your guy..ADVICE PLEASE!!?

Here goes: GF broke up w/ me 3.5 wks ago after being together 10 mos. during the last 2-3 mos. I finished a project that I worked with since we began dating and so I had alot of free time on my hands and always was around and wanted to always see her, etc. she is a full time college student and her friends dont live her so they came home for holiday break and i would get upset that she wanted to see them without me and i always wanted to be around her(I know this is really not right). anyways our relationship was amazing and we had a connection that neither of us had ever before and she spoke of the future together, where we would live, kids, dogs, etc. she said when she broke up w/ me she lost attraction for me. I know she has spoke to and hung out w/ her ex recently. I have gotten the typical advice (no contact, move on, etc.) I dont want to though since we have had a connection like no other and I hurt the relationship with my recent neediness..if there is any advice please help me. ps i dont want to forcefully make her jealous b/c those are games

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1. okay its not that she is not attracted to you, because she was with you for so long and wanted to marry you! the neediness is such a turn off! WITHOUT forcefully making her jealous, play it cool, give her some space, be busy, live your own life, let her enjoy college, and the most important thing for you to do, is to get a life..not to sound rude, but she will realize what she lost and what she wants when she see's that you dont need her and your life is JUST AS fabulous, if not more, without her! Good luck xoxox
2. be polite and wish her a happy new year, etc. just so you still have some communication with her. soon she'll most likely realize that she misses you and may even want to get back together. also if you do talk to her, try not to put out any details about your life currently as not knowing might make her more intrigued.. not knowing what you're up to might make her go crazy and once again she'll realize how much you mean to her.