Can someone give me real advice, that is, speaking from experience....girls and guys?

We were talking for like two weeks, and she would text me everyday trying to talk to me, flirting with me, laughing at my corny jokes, we hung out 2 times after class to chill, there was a lot of chemistry. Then it just stopped 4 days after college ended...she kinda still flirts with me, but i have to initiate. I havent seen her in 2 weeks since college ended. Is it because I never actually called her during this time and said things like "if you are free later, hit me up" I also tried to chill with her again and it didn't work out. Kinda my fault because my details were sketchy. I never asked her out on a date, and now I think she might not be interested in me anymore, so it makes it all the harder to ask her out..... I can't let her go like this... If she were to say she is not interested, I would happily move on, but I am real confused right now... She is one of those closed up, "shy with her feelings" type of girl. I think she has been hurt a lot, and is on her guard... She would be talking to me, mad into the convo, flirting, etc and then she just disappear, no response, nothing, I would usually send one more text and back off....then I would text her a few days later and she will start talking to me, get mad into the convo, and then just dissapear again.... what did I do wrong?

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1. Firstly this girl reminds me of myself in a way. You have to be fast . If you want her tell her Take the initiative because she seems like the type that will not keep contact You have to keep hounding her and if you really like her than keep trying But be more up front with your feelings try calling her sometimes besides texting. The large gap between semesters could also be the problem. You literally have to stay in touch or this girl will never be yours. she seems like the type to treat guys and relationships nonchalantly like me. It's due to being hurt and also because guys aren't everything you know she isn't going to base her whole life off of remembering you if you don't give her something good to remember. Good luck with her. This type is a hard one. But in the end well worth the chase.
2. You didn't do anything wrong. She's probably just really busy unpacking. Speaking from personal experience, I started drifting away from my girlfriend when I moved away to college. All that you have to do is give her a call when you think she isn't busy, and let it go from there.