mates,i know its way too long, but i need some SERIOUS & MATURE advices. Please guys, be a lil generous :)?

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1. You know what ELSE is 'killing'? The fact that you've just written a 1,738 word ESSAY and are expecting us to actually read and answer it :/ If you really want 'serious and mature' advice, it might help if you break down your question so it's easier for us to all digest. Just a thought :/
2. if he really had feelings for you...he would do anything to be with you.let him be for a few weeks.and see if he talks or calls you.then if he doesn't.mail him a note.telling him how you feel about it.good luck.
3. Wow. Long read. Mind games are not fun. Parents getting in the way in a relationship is really bad. I know by culture you want to do what is right by your family. This one is really tough. I guess you just want to ask yourself "Is he worth all of this trouble?" I work with a ton of guys from India, all making decent $ who would love to make some kind of connection with someone that has values like yours. There's a lot of people in this world. If he's not the one then you just haven't found them yet.
4. I think if he truly loved you no matter what his family said or did he would be with you. I know that your culture is different but if I were you I would move on.Good Luck.
5. It sounds like he cares, but real love is to put someone above all else, and he is not willing, and or able to do that for you. I think you are tormenting yourself, and could probably find someone who would be all the things you are hoping this guy will become for you. you deserve better, and you should stop wasting your time.
6. It sounds to me like he's just looking out for your feelings. You should still remain in contact with him, but don't expect a relationship. he was probably scared that you'd want to continue the relationship, but at the same time only wanted for you to be happy, and in the process it upset him. He may have made the whole "lust" thing up in an attempt to push you away, I don't know him personally, but it seems like throughout the entire ordeal he was trying to give you what you wanted even at the cost of his own happiness. I feel for you, and if you still have any further questions, feel free to email me! Hope this was helpful!