Guys and girls dating advice?
I have a thing going on with this guy I was seeing and at the begining I must admit my heart wasnt really in it even though everyone told me how much he liked and talked about me. Hes a ladies man so I was doubtful of the whole thing becasue of that although everyone says hes only after me. He asked for us to offically get together and I thought this was very quick and sudden and on the advice from my friends I told him we would see how the whole thing worked out before getting together. The next time we saw eachother we were together and he said he wouldnt want to ruin our friendship that we had. Still after this all of his friends and mine say he really likes me and he told me himself how much he likes me. After him saying this I now really like this guy hes texted me since then and there is nothing to suggest this is completely over and even his friends talk about us as if we are together even though they know about this friendship business.I dont want to see him if were never going to be together I dont want to be used. Im very confused by this whole thing and would be grateful if anyone could give me advice on why he doesnt want to ruin our friendship if he likes me so much? And what way should I go about this? I dont want to see him if were never going to be together I dont want to be used. I would be grateful if guys could answer too. The reason I think hes trying to use me even though there is no proof of this, I just dont want to be kind of together and able to see other people then when im there where together I would feel used if he done that.
Public Comments
- ok
- tell him that you like him just be up front and if he says he likes you back that will open up the conversation. if he says no well take the rejection with dignity and move on.
