PLEASE Help with ADVICE from your Expereince GIRLS/GUYS..?
Here goes: GF broke up w/ me 3.5 wks ago after being together 10 mos. during the last 2-3 mos. I finished a project that I worked with since we began dating and so I had alot of free time on my hands and always was around and wanted to always see her, etc. she is a full time college student and her friends dont live her so they came home for holiday break and i would get upset that she wanted to see them without me and i always wanted to be around her(I know this is really not right). anyways our relationship was amazing and we had a connection that neither of us had ever before and she spoke of the future together, where we would live, kids, dogs, etc. she said when she broke up w/ me she lost attraction for me. I know she has spoke to and hung out w/ her ex recently. I have gotten the typical advice (no contact, move on, etc.) I dont want to though since we have had a connection like no other and I hurt the relationship with my recent neediness..if there is any advice please help me. also i do not want to blatantly make her jealous cuz we have NEVER played games in our relationship
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- she doesn't deserve you dude. however you should have relaxed your grip on her cuz sounds liek you were way too needy. If you two really were meant to be she would have overlooked your needyness. If your still meant to be then it willhappen just give it time. 10 months i noticed is a hard month in relationships. many can't handle relationships for that long. anywho i suggest you try and move on or keep trying. good luck oh also it sounds like she wasn't overher ex. if you love her let her go.
- if you have never playing games and she legitimately broke up with you, then I would think that you would respect her decision and realize it wasn't she did just because she could. There is never any harm in just talking to her and letting her know how much the break up is really affecting you. I think that since she never extended the invite for you to meet her family and friends, chases are that she was never as serious as you might you have been. Good luck with whatever you decide to do!!
- I think that she met someone she liked more and got rid of you. From my expieriances she might eventually change her mind and start liking you again.
