ok so my question is well there are some girls that i like i talk to them sometimes but not as much as i should since i get nervous being around girls even let laone talking to them i get scared even more so if they are really beautiful which i find most girls are i was raised to respect and treat girls with great respect and that god is a woman and stuff like that. I have never dated a girl really before but i did know a few girls but just as friends and that was more just at school not hanging out anywhere else, but now i think i want my first girlfriend and first kiss even since my friends are talking about how they hook up with girls and how good it is and all that stuff..I have a sister who is two years younger also and she has said im not mature enoug for a girlfriend? i think im sort of mature and ready but im not so sure yet? should i wait for awhile or longer even before i date a girl or try and kiss one and do stuff to a girl? how can i know im ready to have a girlfriend and get to know and date a girl and do stuff? i mean i only have like a hundred dollars in the bank and not much of a job at the moemnt but im looking and working sort of part time so i guess i should focus more or work and career and getting money before i worrie about girls and doing stuff with a girl and all thats tuff? thanks for advice im fairly sure im not ready yet and i should wait awhile just wondering if you have any tips of advic eon the subject since im starting to get these feelings more and seeing all my guy friends dating and hooking up with girls makes me want to get to know some girls more and stuff but im not sur eim ready yet but i have these feelings..so im so confused? thanks alot!