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I need help with some dating and relationship advice on my girlfriend in high school.?

Okay so im 15 and im a 9th grader in highschool. Im in my second relationship and its my first serious relationship. My first one was only a few months long and wasnt serious at all. I need some advice on whats going on but heres the story: After me and my first girlfriend broke up, a few months later, I met this girl who I immediately started falling hard for. We had a thing going on for about a month and then we started dating. When I first started liking her, I was extremely attracted to her and thought she was really hot and would do anything to date her. When we first started dating, everything felt so perfect. We have been dating for 2 months now, and she is the nicest and best girlfriend a guy could have, but I am starting to find myself less attracted to her and less obsessive over her than when we first started dating. And Im still attracted to other girls. We never fight and we get along like a perfect couple. But im just becoming less attracted to her, and Ive even several times felt like I just wanted to move on to a different relationship. Im a guy and us guys love getting action (makin out, bjs, and when were ready, sex) Shes trying to take this relationship slower because she wants us to last for as long as possible (as do I) but sometimes, I still find myself wanting to move on to a new relationship... I need some advice... Whats going on, why do I feel like this, what should I do? please help... its a very stressfull overwhelming feeling that I dont know why this is happening. Could it possibley be because Im just too anxious for some action? please please help :(

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  1. you really need to take your time with relationships and being in high school and all can be overwhelming and with a relationship at that so i would just take my time get to know each other more pass your classes and just feel good about life while still having a relationship all and all you might not be attracted to your girlfriend anymore ive seen it happen. so just take things as they come and wait out things
  2. remember your young so that plays a huge factor, but the main thing you need to remember as time goes on the flame wears down a bit the initial excitement goes away ...dont rush into physical things its better if you wait till youre truly in love...a kiss is sufficient :)
  3. I think that maybe, ur just getting too bored with ur girl. Like u said, u like action and ur just not getting enough of it. Look, i think u should seroiusly think about moving on because shes not ready to take things a bit faster, and ur wanting to move on may tear u guys up and hurt her (and u too).
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