Any advice on how to meet guys?
I am a 21 year old Christian nurse who works full time at a local hospital on a floor that mainly has patients ages 50 to 90 years old. I am also a full time student working on my BSN. Obviously, I do not have any real free time. When I do have some free time, I would really like to have someone to go out and have fun with. Generally, I would go with friends but all of my friends either are in a relationship or have moved away, and all of my classmates/co-workers are much older than me and have their own families and such. I have tried the online dating thing without any luck, and all of my friends claim I am "too good" for the few single guys they know and will not attempt to set me up with any of them. I don't mean to be arrogant but I do not see where a guy would not like hanging out w/ me b/c many of my patients and friends tell me how attractive I am and how much fun they have with me. Any ideas or advice on how to meet guys to go out with would be appreciated. Thanks in advance! Thanks for the advice! I just wanted to add that yes I am a member of the Church I have attended my whole life (which is the only Lutheran Church around here) and I am the ONLY person between ages 18 and 35. lol. and my school, everything is online so I meet/see no one. The classmates I was referring to are those who I just happen to know through discussion boards and stuff for the classes.
Public Comments
- Don't wear a shirt, that will help you meet guys
- You sound great and you sound exactly like me... Except different careers. I'm 21, and a double major in chemical engineering and Spanish. Needless to say, I don't have much spare time. (I answer all these questions while taskless at work). I have a very hard time meeting new women. Try asking friends for blind dates... I've even thought of trying online dating. Let me know if you find a better alternative!
- Say you're 21 and a nurse. Seems to me you shouldn't have a problem finding a nice guy. Maybe try a hospital where there's younger men, whether its patients or doctors. Bars is not a place to meet nice men. They're usually there for only one reason. But who knows, you might get lucky. Good luck in either case.
- You and Bluedevil1642 should get together! He's a TOP CONTRIBUTOR!! And you have so much in common.
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- Since you're 21 [lucky ^_^] you could go to a bar [not one of those trashy ones] you don't have to drink, or a club. If you want, but it interferes with your schedule then make new friends at school they could know somebody. In my opinion you should finish school first, because knowing guys some wouldn't probably adjust to your schedule. I could also suggest church ^_^ I met a guy there yesterday after my confermation classes whooo:DD but yeah good luck^_^
- Have you tried going to church and participating in their functions? Join a meetup group @ http://www.meetup.com/ What are your hobbies/ interest? ie. if you like softball try going to craigslist.org and join a co-ed team. Dating is about numbers..you just need more exposure. Go to places where you think there guys that you are interested in.
