I need good Christian advice on splitting time between my friends and the boyfriend... Emergency!!?

Hey everyone. Okay my boyfriend and I have been dating for around a year and my best friend and my boyfriend absolutely hate each other. Its bad!! Well they steer clear of each other but its not until recently that HUGE problems have been coming up about how much time he is spending with his friends and how much time I am spending with mine. Well tonight, my boyfriend and I had plans made and all of a sudden he cancels at the last minute to tell me he's going off with his friends.. Well that hurt and I got mad and then he starts going off about how we should break up because we are always fighting about this stuff. So I have till like Wednesday to save the relationship... Now keep in mind that I need Christian advice. He and I go to church and are devout Christians and I know this is not supposed to happen yet. Just what do I do? Please help!! Thanks so much!

Public Comments

1. Just pick certain days and nights were its friends nights and date nights so you to dont crowd each other and you have time with your friends.
2. Cry out to God, pray that what hecwants will happen, give it allllllll to him! I'll pray for u!
3. Christian advice? You're pathetic to think that only Christian people can give you go advice. And I'm Christian. I'm sure some one out there who isn't Christian can give you the BEST advice but you won't get it.
4. Why does it have to be Christian advice? Your problem isn't spiritual in nature. Its like saying "Does anyone know a good Christian mechanic?" or "My toilet is backed up and I need good Christian advice on how to unclog it." That being said, you should attempt to bridge the rift between your boyfriend and your best friend. If these people are important to you and your on going happiness they should be able to get along, if not be friends.
5. Fuck him before he cheats he may already be hurry
6. This is a common problem and I don't think the answer need be christian specific. My girlfriend hates my best friend too, and she basically won't come to an event if he's gonna be there. So I know how it sux to be in the middle where you just feel like they got off on the wrong foot and it would make your life easier if they would just get along. Anyway, the short answer is that your partner should have priority over the friend/s (whether they be yours or his), but its also important to stay in close contact with friends. Arrange time with one crowd or another ahead of schedule, and then have the integrity NOT to blow off that person/group when a better deal comes up. And you can simply say, "sorry, I already have plans". Of course, from the example you gave, it sounds like your boyfriend is the one that should be listening to that advice. Tell him to be a man of integrity and to stick to his prior engagement. People who blow people off for some 'better deal' wind up with less friends later in life.
7. 1st christians should not hate. You obviously need to pray and put away your anger and strife for this is not of God. Now is this the love of God? God is the one who unites a pair. If Gods love is not the base of the relationship, then there is always the danger of falling! so here is what i would do.... 1) pray 2) talk to him about it 3) read the bible for reproof
8. Hey...,U have told that u all are dating around one year so what did u get 4m him? Y ur going through christian advice or church?.. did u or your boy friend went all through this before dating? then what is the use of going 2 church or advice ?..therefore u have a right 2take any decision on this problem 2 solve. and remember if your boyfriend disappoint u all the time Y you are dating or keeping a affair with him? now the best thing is don't get delay u are 2late now stop dating or anything with him and look a another bright future.