if i keep dating him could it lead to a serious relationship?

I have been dating this fun attractive man who has an amazing zest for life I would call him a free spirit or an opportunist. He has mentioned to me how important having his freedom is to him and how he enjoys being able to do what ever he pleases like swim or golf etc without answering to no one. I wonder if he will want a special lady in his life to love I would like to be her but he only asks me out on dates like to play golf or ride bikes go grab a drink and so forth I know he is dating other women but the more dates i go on with him the more I fall in love and desire more with him he is all i think about it makes it hard for me to date other men because they just don't add up to this guy I just need advice on what i should do from this point. Thanks so much for your advice :)

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1. sure
2. of course time is the key good luck help me plz http://ca.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ahjedc41F.PMPajnnd6EEv_AFQx.;_ylv=3?qid=20090306205256AA5ICtL
3. yup. girls fall in deeper and deeper. then they get dependent on the male.
4. Only You Would KNow. (:
5. he wants to see if you'll fit in his freezer
6. Just tell how you feel about him. Say that it is from your heart. He will understand.
7. I understand your anxiety but really no one can answer this question for you..over time you will discover just what this mans intentions are and sometimes giving it time with some lets downs is the only way to be sure..
8. NO#1 !!!!!!! Is he married? Check it out before to late.
9. Well, at least he has been honest. I really think he isn't interested in a commitment at this time. Sorry, but if he was he wouldn't be dating other women. xox
10. I think u should go somewhere really private and talk 2 him, just make it romantic and special. talk to him about what he wants in the future, what his goals are, what kind of person he wants to marry someday, if he wants kids. it depends on how u feel too. be serious, but don't make it stressful on him. talk about ur feelings and how he feels about these questions. be really honest too. tell him how u feel about him and ask him about ur relationship with him. it depends if he also thinks it's really serious as much as u do. good luck and hope i helped. ☺only u know how much ur in love with him and if u want to spend ur life with him♥
11. any kind of long term dating could lead to a serious relationship.. maybe he only takes you golfing or biking because he enjoys the outdoors.. and he wants to see if you enjoy it too... i think you should just keep doin what your doin and maybe ask him what he wants in life... and what his plans are for the future.. or sumthing.. just an idea.. good luck!
12. only HE knows the answer, just ask him
13. Typical scenario for the girl. Girl meets great guy, guy fears committment, girl wants more, girl gets hurt. At this point you should tell him that you want more because you do want more. He's seeing other women because he's saying he's not in love and he doesn't want to be tied down, which in general doesn't look promising for any girl who wants more with him at this point. Guys just want companionship without all the emotion and seriousness that we women tend to put into everything. I've been in this situation more often than not, and usually what happens is that I end up alone. I can only tell you that you should save yourself time, tell him how you feel and if he's not on the same page, let this go as soon as possible. Maybe he could reach that point in the future, but if you continue letting him have his way now, while deep inside you are saddened by the fact that you want more, then it's gonna be a vicious cycle and you won't get your way in the end--I guarantee that. You deserve more than to be someone's option.