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Why am I not attractive to reasonably attractive women?

I suffer from Asperger's Syndrome (a mild form of autism) and have great difficulty in socialising. I have never had any friends nor a girlfriend, though I have always wanted one. I created a profile on a free dating website but every girl I contact has a look at my profile but does not reply to me. I would be extremely grateful if anyone could view my profile and give me advice on what is wrong with it. The website is www.plentyoffish.com and my username is alex_jones_23. I want to find girls who are attractive, intelligent and fun. What is preventing these girls from being attracted to me? Oh, and please do not just give me the cliché, be yourself and the right girl will come along, because I've heard that so many times and it doesn't work in my case.

Public Comments

  1. get some new pics bro.....i mean, you've got one where you are concealed by a scuba mask, another where 90% of yourself is obscured by a dolphin, and another that is too dark to really see anything. that and your profile says that you don't have a car....most girls don't like dudes without a ride....unless you live in a city where public transportation is the norm, you should save up some $ and get a car you seem like a nice dude though...so good luck i guess...and if being yourself doesn't work....then try being someone else...be wilt chamberlain
  2. I read your profile on the website...and I gotta tell you it looks perfectly fine. You seem great. so I have no idea why...maybe you've just gotten overlooked? i don't know...sorry
  3. They may not reply because: - They are not interested in things you are - They don't find you physcially attractive....you may want to change your display picture...to me it isn't very appealing to be honest. (You wanted the truth yeah) - Girls are very picky in general - Girls may have profiles but they may not be interested as they are interested in someone else, or too busy to reply, or just aren't interested in general so ignore the messages Try finding girls with the same interests as you, and in your league... and sign up to more sites like that, where there are a whole range of other girls. Good luck and I hope you find something special in the future. =]x Oh yes and new pictures!!
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