dating advice, girls or guys?

Ok so I work alot and have little time to get out and meet new people. I consider myself fairly attractive and have never had trouble finding a girl to talk to at a bar. I tried Plenty of fish and okcupid....free dataing sites and have had little luck finding someone I like. I get lots of chicks emailing me, however they dont appeal to me. is yahoo personals any good, I mean I will pay for it, but dont want to waste money on the same BS i get on the other dating sites. Please be serious when answering. Thanks in advance.

Public Comments

1. well, in my opinion, people who are on free sites shouldn't be much different then those on pay sites. my reasoning is that people that don't know much about computers go to pay sights cause they haven't found a free one. and those that know about both and are taking it serious enough to start paying will most likely have a profile on a free one. also the pay sites would have eliminated all the people that are just there to try to make some friends. so yeah, pay sites would have weeded out the ones that ain't serious, but there are allot of serious people out there you just have to take more time to look when your on a free one. btw, if your getting them to e-mail you then you are doing a hell of allot better then me...and yes of course they don't appeal to you, only losers use the internet to date. i myself happen to be unable to get those girls that don't appeal you to even give me a second glance. also the people on the dating sights are on average much higher education, and are far more introverted (or have kinds), if this isn't your type then it will be even harder for you then most people trying to find someone online. btw you should read the forum section of the free sites on the subject of guys not having success, it's informational on the same subject and also probably just as common for the girls. aka guys don't have it worse then the girls on the sites, girls are always complaining about losers that won't stop sending them tells.
2. I think online dating is a horrible way to mask ones personality. So many people on these sites will only list/show their good traits, and when/if you meet in person, you unexpectedly stumble upon their bad traits, and it comes off 10x worse than it should have. Be careful with who you talk to. :) Stay clear of the freaks. If they seem freaky, then they probably are.
3. Love will find you! Get out there.. meeting girls at bars usually don't mean anything.