How to attract and keep the "Mr. right" intereted and weed out Mr wrong?
i have trouble meeting the nice guys that are relationship material. I always get approached by the bad guys and etc. I am also really nice so sometimes i think i am a little too nice when dating. i dont really know how to make a happy medium between the two ( nice and not so nice). I am also a homebody alot of the time so its hard for me to meet the type of guys i like, and i am too shy to approach ( i am not good with rejection). So i will have guys approach me on my daily errands, and they not exactly what i want....there is always something major wrong with them. So lately i have been trying this online dating thing. I met this puertorican guy for drinks at a bar. he owns a salsa dance studio in the area of which he is very passionate about. His personality so far is amazing, and i am surprised. I cut the date short because i had to study, but he gave me a kiss on the cheek and bid his goodbyes. Later that night, i was lil confused on whether he was interested so i sent a very short email just letting him know i had a good time and that he was attractive. he sent me one back saying he was " more than pleased with me", thought i was beautiful, and would love to see me again. he gave me his home number to call him. But whats the next step? I sent him an email back ( replied 2 days after receiving his first, didn't want to seem desperate) saying that whenever he has free time to just give me a call cuz i know he is really busy with the studio. I am wondering what are the dating rules in this situation to keep him interested and not seem desperate, but also not make him think i have lost interest, and to get to know him better and see if we click. When i like someone i tend to get a lil overly excited and do most of the calling. I dont want to do that anymore cuz i WANT to be pursued. Give me good advice that WORKS please. Also i am struggling with finding my own style....i am girlie but when i go into a department store i have trouble trying to find clothes that fit my body i am curvy like beyonce with a very small waist. What styles are good for this body type without dressing like a hoochie??? I just turned 24 and i really want to look sexy but sophisticated..thanks i usually dont follow dating rules, because i believe in being yourself; however most men like the chase.......so i decided to abide by these rules......i guess previously i didnt put up much of a chase.
Public Comments
- Don't call him. If you want to put him in chase mode, let him call you. I don't know what to tell you to wear. But yeah, slow down. Got out with your friends and wait for him to call you again.
- just take things slow with him justt alk to him on the phone and you and him go out and enjoy your selfes spend some time together. find somethig that looks good on you like a dress or something that yo are comfortable in
