Best dating advice for a plus size girl (women and men are womcome)all?

all advice is appreciated! THANKS!

Public Comments

1. remember the X-files? 'Trust no one".
2. some men are very attracted to plus size women. so just be urself cause ur special in our own way.... just like a blond with blue eyes, redhead with freckles and brunette with eyes.
3. Try a black man. In many black cultures larger women are highly prized.
4. I just say go for it and be yourself. I don't want to sound arrogant, but make sure to dress nice and have some make-up to bring out natural features. I've seen plus size gilrs this way and thought they were just radiant.
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6. Don't squeeze yourself into an outfit that's too small. Choose something stylish, but that's still comfortable, or you'll feel ill at ease during your date. Apart from that.....just be yourself and ask your date lots of questions about himself.......... and Remember to wear that all important smile! :-D
7. any man worth having will love you for who you are inside as well as out. loads of plus size girls are happily with great men! Make sure you have real confidence in yourself and that you work on the inner beauty, and always look good on the outside too. Dress in styles that make you FEEL good about yourself and take care of your skin and hair. As for the inner beauty thing, well it's getting kind of hard to find these days so make sure you have something to offer on the inside that no one else has, and some special guy somewhere will realise you are unique....which you are.
8. Just find a man that likes women of larger size and then on a date just act natural and things should go ok...as far as tips, i cant give any, all I can say is just be yourself. If the guy dont like you for EXACTLY who you are (personality, looks, the way you laugh, your hair, your EVERYTHING) then he dont deserve you, find the man who makes you float on cloud nine!!! hard to do but you should get lots of dating done then!!!! lol!! hope this helps from one large sized woman to another... :-)
9. I would love you to lose the weight since it isnt healthy at all, and sometimes it excludes you in many things in life. But since I see guys with heavy girls and thin girls, I guess it isnt impossible. Make yourself look good and go out if of age and believe me, guys will come to you. But pleaseeeeeee get the diet better (no soft drinks and Burger King for a while). It will make you feel better. please
10. Beauty comes in all sizes and it's the person that you are which needs to be addressed. Are you familiar with NAAFA??? Naafa is a national organization who believes that fat is not a fourt letter word. Check out www.naafa.org and get yourself out there to network with others who share your challenges. Once you are happy with who you are, others will be happy with you regardless of your weight, age, height, or whatever. The mission statement states NAAFA is a non-profit human rights organization dedicated to improving the quality of life for fat people. NAAFA has been working since 1969 to eliminate discrimination based on body size and provide fat people with the tools for self-empowerment through public education, advocacy, and member support. NAAFA needs the support of everyone who feels that size discrimination is unfair and unacceptable.
11. be yourself at all times. don't be with a man that makes you feel less than beautiful.
12. Smile and be self-confident. Men love that.
13. Plus size girls are kind hearted Plus size men are greedy. Act accordingly
14. are you asking how to get a date or what to do on a date?.....to get a date, it's easier when you're not with your friends. You scope out a guy you want, and you just keep looking at him, and when he looks at you, you just smile and then look away. and then, they usually walk over and ask you for you name and # and all that junk. For going on the date, #1 rule. you don't have to do anything you don't want to do. Be yourself. Wear somehting that's nice, but not trashy. you don't want him to think you're a slut so don't fully make out with him on the first date. A simple kiss though is fine.
15. I think in a dating starved Canadian society full of men in great need, all she has to do is simply ask. Isn't it stupid that many male Vancouverites who have been socialized into believing that asking out a girl is sexual harassment, as if living in Sinagpore, do not know their own value. They do not know that with their Canadian citizenship, they can bargain a beautiful Thai, Cambodian or a bride in Myanmar to marry them without a bride price. The offer to bring them to Canada even as a loser working in McDonalds making their months wages in two days at minimum wage is excellent in their books. So just ask. Many men love cuddly chubby ladies, who just love to be hugged all day. So don't count yourself out. email me and I can find you a boyfriend, as my friend is lonely.