I really feel let down, I guess, And so you know I am not opposed to same gender realtionships, I was being silly, but Any relationship is always work man or woman, man and man and woman and woman, so when YOU feel tired and let down and dating is lame you get tired of the games tired of someone using your heart for a punching bag and you leave, no says we have to stay what do you do? What is a good release from anger, spite, hurt, I need to be strong but it seems that I meet someone and I meet personality A and then I meet their personality B! LOL! So what do you to reinforce structure within your own daily living first before you open heart or a part of it to someone and allow them into your? I have a child so this sort of complicates things but it is more of my protection of my son, Any good dating advice?