dating advice, girls or guys? Ok so I work alot and have little time to get out and meet new people. I consider myself fairly attractive and have never had trouble finding a girl to talk to at a bar. I tried Plenty of fish and okcupid....free dataing sites and have had little luck finding someone I like. I get lots of chicks emailing me, however they dont appeal to me. is yahoo personals any good, I mean I will pay for it, but dont want to waste money on the same BS i get on the other dating sites. Please be serious when answering. Thanks in advance.

What do you guys think? dating advice needed please really neeed help i may have ruined thingss. :(? Hey :) So iv been getting to know this guy, been on one date and then he moved cities for three months through work... We have been keeping in touch via text and email on a regular basis and getting to know one another... he said he liked me and is looking forward to seeing me.. Not been on any dates since me.. and is flattered i liked him. However he is a little hard work and this has kept me on my toes for example - taking ages to text back.. etc etc.. I did have a word about this and he said he would make more of an effort in which he did. So he came back last sunday and we arranged to see each other yesterday.. in the afternoon. I got a text saying i cant make it 45mins before the date was meant to take place... :( I was gutted because i made such an effort to get ready.. and he claimed he wasnt very well but went out the night before so im suspecting a hangover? He asked me when i was free in the week i was very angry that id waited 3 months to see him and didnt date anyone else cos i really liked him. were both 19 by the way. I went off on one basically and he said he was sorry but didnt seem to dispointed to be honest and texted saying im sick of you having ago at me. In rage i said iv had enough your too much work. I sat and thought after that maybe a overacted and sent him a message saying how sorry i was for being over the top and how i would like to see him again when he is better no reply :( So now i dont know what to do or think? any suggestions on what i should do? He hasnt deleted me on facebook sooo i dont know :S Thanks :)

ladies i need some help (Guys if you have an advice feel free to share)? well my boy friend turns out to have stomach cancer. he says he will be fine but idk what to do. i have been dating him for two years now.. i dont want to lose him. but being him he blows it off like nothing at all. is there anything i can say or do? i mean nobody is this cool with dying right?

can i have a dating with a guy at the free dating site? who knows if it is reliable? i met a guy at a free dating site www.muslimonly.com/i/joinforfree he invited me to have dinner at weekend. i am afraid if it is reliable through the dating sites online? i need your advice please. contact me

What would you want out of a dating advice site? I am thinking of setting up a web site that gives women a chance to ask a guy (me) any questions they would like to know the answer to. Would you use it if it cost a little? or if it were free? What are some of the questions you would ask?

Indian guy causcasian girl - need your advice for sucesfull dating? I have been dating an Indian guy (born in India) and now working in UK for 2 months and I am Caucasian. He is comming form a very traditional family, and is torn between his wish to be in harmony with is parents and his longing to be free and be with me. I need your advice about how to make our relationship last and work out the eventual problems? He is of course afraid to tell his parents about us, and anyway it is a too early starge of a relationship anyway. And also he is very honest to me, and he is not one of the sweet talking Inidan guys who promiss golden hills and then return to India and marry a girl their parents chose for him. He actually already told his parents that he does not want an arranged marriage and that he wnats to choose his partner when he wants. So I am now open to hear advices about HOW will and can our relationship WORK OUT inspite of the difficulties and potential problems wit his parents. I know it is difficult, but hay, give me a chance to try!

CHRISTIAN GUYS!!.....Heart hurts...need boyfriend advice.? Had an amazing 5 1/2 months with my 32 year old boyfriend. He told me he loved me first early on. He told me all the time we "fit so well together" were "meant to be together", and that it was not a matter of "whether or not" we'd get married....but when. He was divorced (three years ago) a d she left him. Now our church says he is not free to date untill he fills out the remarriage paperwork, and we are given permission by our church. We both are serious about our faith and honoring God...so changing churches is not an option. Although we were not "allowed" to date until the paperwork was turned in and we were given permission..we have been dating...and things have been amazing....until the past three weeks. We started picking on each other's flaws a lot. His complaint was that I was too clingy and didn't have enough of a hobby of my own. My complaint was that he was wanting more and more time for his hobbies, and was sort of a mamma's boy. We talked about it a lot and decided we still loved each other and accepted each other as we were. But with the picking on each other the past few weeks...we really hurt each other and needed space and time to heal. On top of it...he turned in the remarriage request form with the church and it struck me one day that God will not bless sin...so if we wanted God to hear our prayer that we could be together, so I called him at work and told him we needed to start being obedient to God's authorities (the minister's request that we not date) and just be friends so that there was a chance for blessing before they made their decision on paperwork. All this time I still thought our love was strong and things would work out no matter what. He told me he agreed and that we should honor God and be friends and that after two weeks of doing a few things that hurt each other, he needed "time to relax." Now, we who usually email and see each other every day...have not really spoken all week since this happened. I am worried I am losing him (his love and hope for us.) I asked him the other night how he felt about all of this and told him I made the decision to be friends to KEEP us and give us a chance in God's blessing at being married...NOT to seperate. He said that before he was sure we'd be married, but after seeing the things I said and did that hurt him these past few weeks...he's not sure. I appologized tearfully time and time again and told him I'd make it up to him and that we'll get through this. Now he's not talking much. Just says he needs time and space to "relax, think, and figure this out." GUYS>>>WHAT's GOING ON? Before HE was the one that always wanted to work it out and insisted he loved me, we would be together, we would get married, etc... etc...and I WAS THE ONE who made the call to be friends... Guys...what do I do to make him happy/ keep/ win his love and trust back? Christian viewpoints are appreciated, for I feel those that don't believe are not on the same page as us. I miss him so much and truly thought we could still hang out and be friends until we are permitted to be together again..that we'd work through this. Tell me guys... what do i do? any advice is appreciated...from anyone. Yes, we did mess up and give into temptation and sleep together. but repented together on our knees. He loves the Lord so much i though i'd earn his respect and love in protecting our relationship from this temptation. i said a few mean things that week such as " you didn't have to make a half-hearted attempt to see me. Genuineness is far more appreciated. Some day maybe I'll find a man who will really love me and make me happy." I REGRET THIS NOW. I know it hurt him and I didn't mean it...I told him i was sorry and didn't mean it.

Dating an Indian guy - I need advice .? I have been dating an Indian guy (born in India) and now working in UK for 2 months and I am Caucasian. He is comming form a very traditional family, and is torn between his wish to be in harmony with is parents and his longing to be free and be with me. I need your advice about how to make our relationship last and work out the eventual problems? He is of course afraid to tell his parents about us, and anyway it is a too early starge of a relationship anyway. And also he is very honest to me, and he is not one of the sweet talking Inidan guys who promiss golden hills and then return to India and marry a girl their parents chose for him. He actually already told his parents that he does not want an arranged marriage and that he wnats to choose his partner when he wants. So I am now open to hear advices about HOW will and can our relationship WORK OUT inspite of the difficulties and potential problems wit his parents. I know it is difficult, but hay, give me a chance to try!

Please? Any advice on my ex really needed thanks!? I was dating a guy for a year and a half, had been going really well, but guess I took him for granted last few weeks, pressing for us to get married move in together, generally got too comfortable. Out of the blue he broke up, I was devastated and missed him but gave him his space. I never heard from him in 6 months and recently in moment of weakness emailed him saying I had missed him and maybe we should catch up. He replied a few hours later telling me he was sorry for the delay, mail system down and the dates and time he was free saying that would be good. Bit nervous though and haven't replied. Don't want to feel rejection again, at the same time, I do miss him and feel like I never got closure, our relationship was left hanging in mid air. Can you advise? Thank you so much! :O)

What would you do, please advice with ex? Thanks!? I was dating a guy for a year and a half, had been going really well, but guess I took him for granted last few weeks, pressing for us to get married move in together, generally got too comfortable. Out of the blue he broke up, I was devastated and missed him but gave him his space. I never heard from him in 6 months and recently in moment of weakness emailed him saying I had missed him and maybe we should catch up. He replied a few hours later telling me he was sorry for the delay, mail system down and the dates and time he was free saying that would be good. Bit nervous though and haven't replied. Don't want to feel rejection again, at the same time, I do miss him and feel like I never got closure, our relationship was left hanging in mid air. Can you advise? Thank you so much! :O)

need some men and women advice? i have liked someone for quite some time now, and i thought i was liked back...but just found out that he is going out with a close friend of mine.... before this my friend (the one that is dating the guy) was always encouraging me to make a move or give him a hint that i liked his as she keps saying she is not interestied in him so i was free to do what i wanted... yesterday i found out that they r planning their engagement party... i am not hurt but very anoyed... what shall i do with the friendship i have with them? they've been dating for 3-4 months without anyone knowing and only 5 months ago she kept telling me that she looked at him as a brother truthfully i have prayed for them to have many blessings in their life but it feels strange to be anywhere around them

guys i need ur advice, grls feel free to answer too.? I know it's lame, but i'm finishing my sophomore year of college, and still haven't been asked out. i'm 5ft 7in 140lbs, i'm a c-cup, athletic and fit, red hair blue eyes (but i'm not the red that has red skin and freckles) my bff says if you put debra messings hair color and skin tone on a 16yr old brittney spears id be her identicle twin. i dress average/casual (don't confuse casual with grungy) i dont really go overboard with my appearance. i'm pretty well laid back, chill, and also nice. not to beep my own horn, but i'm ALWAYS told how cute, adorable, beautiful, chill, and sweet i am, but why isn't this enough JUST TO GET A DATE?! neway, now that you have an idea of what i am like, can someone please answer my question, why hasn't any guy asked me out yet, what can i do to make a guy feel comfortable enough to ask me out? it would be really nice to get a date sometime between now and before summer classes start or even end. i'm getting desperate. plzzzz help! ever since i spent my entire freshmen yr. dateless, i subconciously try my hardest at seeming approachable, you know, for ex: if i catch a guy looking at me in class or anywhere, i always smile and give them a sweet blink, and as far as going out, i always go to games, i LOVE tailgating, i go to bars with grlfriends, it's not like i don't get out or anything like that.

I need dating advice???? Please!!!!!? I am dating a guy who is really sweet. Everything is going well but I have my reservations about him. He is just getting out of college so money is tight for him. It often seems like he tries to take me to places that are free or he makes food selections at a restaurant based on what I am getting. I often end up paying. I am out of school. I have a job, house, car, no debt or student loans. I can't help but worry about the future with him.). I have never dated anyone that I had to offer up so much of myself and my wallet. In the back of my mind, I think about being the bread winner and it does not set well with me. I have even seen him make frivolous purchases and then later in the day, not have any money for an activity he planned. What should I do?

advice on long distance relationships? there is this guy that i like. a lot. and he seems to like me too. a lot. it all started last summer when we were on the same soccer team, we went to the same school, but never really noticed eachother before that. anyway, in september he moved four states away, becuase of family complications. but we still keep in touch. my friends all tell me that i'm crazy and that i need to move on. but i can't! its not like i'm going around and moping or anything. its just that we talk on the phone about once a week, and we write letters. and i don't date other guys becuase i'm just not interested (especially since the last three guys have been... unique...) but so far it seems to work out great! we're not bf & gf, we're both free to see other people, but we both dont want to. everybody thinks i'm stupid, but i think what i'm doing is ok. what do you guys think?

Indian guy causcasian girl - need your advice for sucesfull dating? I have been dating an Indian guy (born in India) and now working in UK for 2 months and I am Caucasian. He is comming form a very traditional family, and is torn between his wish to be in harmony with is parents and his longing to be free and be with me. I need your advice about how to make our relationship last and work out the eventual problems? He is of course afraid to tell his parents about us, and anyway it is a too early starge of a relationship anyway. And also he is very honest to me, and he is not one of the sweet talking Inidan guys who promiss golden hills and then return to India and marry a girl their parents chose for him. He actually already told his parents that he does not want an arranged marriage and that he wnats to choose his partner when he wants. So I am now open to hear advices about HOW will and can our relationship WORK OUT inspite of the difficulties and potential problems wit his parents. I know it is difficult, but hay, give me a chance to try!

i need good relationship advice.? alright, here's the skinny: so i'm dating this guy, right? he's amazing. we met at the beginning of last year and we've been best friends ever sense. we've been dating for five months now. there's only one problem: i had to move away. now i'm 100+ miles away from him and only get to see him about once a month. i know that long distance dating can sometimes work if you still keep in touch via phone and myspace. but lately, it's been getting really hard to not have him right here with me. so how do i tell him that? i still want to be best friends but what if he doesn't see the same way i do? i want him to be free to like other girls and to have fun with his friends without feeling bad that i'm not there with him. please help! i really need to tell him soon!

What should I say to my boyfriend? I need advice guys!? I need some quick advice here. I have had a reoccuring issue with my boyfriend - nearly every weekend, any arranged date we have planned becomes a free for all for his friends. If we are planning to go to a brewery and share some drinks, he will invite along a few friends for the evening. If we have a dinner date, he will call and tell me about a house party, asking if we could do dinner another night since the party will enable him to hang out with everyone at the same time. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a boring girl. I'm outgoing and social, and enjoy going out in large groups, and doing things outside of the more simple 'dinner and a movie' type of thing. However, after a few failed attempts to go out together this week, he and I had plans to get together tonight after he came back from the city with his friends. He just called to tell me that these same friends are going out to a casino/bar type thing and he thinks it would be fun. His last statment "Oh, and you're obviously invited" kinda irritated me. Obviously I was under the impression that we had plans for the evening, and to know that he would be so kind as to invite me along with his friends just makes me wanna throw my hands up. This is where I need advice. I actually do wanna go to this bar/casino place, (dave and buster's for those who know of it). I've been before and have enjoyed myself. However, I also want to make it a point to have him understand how often I sacrifice any chance of a romantic, private date in order for him to not miss out on a single event with his pals. Should I stick to my guns and insist we have one-on-one time, or should I once again be the odd person out in the sea of his guy pals? Thanks!! To answer your question: We're both in our early twenties, we've been officially together for half a year now, and there are no trust issues. I've told him of my feelings regarding this issue before. I definitely do give him space - we only get together about twice a week; the rest of the time he is hanging out with friends. We do see each other alone, but not as much as I have been used to in past relationships. I don't really think he'd be into hanging out with me and all my girl friends, so I try to keep that to a minimum, which is why this baffles me.

can i have some advice on this please? ok...i have been dating this guy for a year now and i really care about him and love him. i am going to be going to tennessee for 6 months and he thinks we should just be on break for right now because of that...plus this past year hasnt been the easiest one...not because of us but things that stood in our way. now usually i dont believe in "breaks" because i think they are a guilt free way to see other people...but he is different i trust him...and he has proven himself over and over again in this area...we both decided that we need a fresh start if we want this relationship to go long term...so what i am asking is...do you think this will work?? i mean of course without knowing our history together...he loves me and i love him...and we both want to be together but both agree we need a fresh start and now is a better opportunity than any other time

Advice Please? I was dating this guy for about 3-4mos, and in my entire life i've never had anyone treat me so horribly for no reason at all. I feel like i'm a good person, when in love i'm faithful, i don't argue a lot as long as i'm happy and your happy i just go with the flow, I work 8hrs, a day, and i'm currently enrolled in school two days a week. Now where i'm from that's rare because most women my age(23), lay up all day waiting for the first of the month to receive walfare, and watch soap operas all day. I do have a 6 year old son, but he's well taken care of and get's plenty of love. My question is Why was he's such an a** Hole? He never wanted to spend time with me, I had to practically beg him to have sex with me, and he never called, He was also a DJ at this club that me and my friends go to some time, so i asked him to get us in free, he said yeah, but when we got 2 the club, i was so embarassed because my name wasn't on the list. Why was he so cruel to me, i just can't understand why? And for the record I'm a very attractive person, because men are constantly asking me for my number, I am though a plus size woman, so maybe that has something to do with it, but he knew that when he asked me for my number. Maybe your right. He wasn't that attractive, and it wasn't because he was a DJ, it was because he worked, he took pride in himself, and he seemed like a nice guy.

IHow do you know if a guy is just in it for the sex. I want answers from guys, but ladies feel free to answer I'm a woman "seeing a guy" Just started dating after bad break up Finished college Not that experienced Good intution doesn't want to get burned Like guy...a lot I like sex But I like him enough to want to see him afterwards So guys...any advice besides just asking him...signs perhaps

His job & son take most of his time, is he really that into me? I dated this guy a few years ago, and I was more into partying than him...I really did care about him, I was just young (22) and he broke my heart. Well about a month ago he contacted me and we started talking everyday, two and three times a day, we went out to dinner and he took me around his friends and introduced me to all them. He recently told me he likes me and he wants to see what can happen, but he doesn't want anything exclusive right now. He wants to take things slow. He is so used to being single, he says. He works third shift and only has his son one night a week, so that leaves him one night to go out...I understand his busy schedule, I have one as well and don't have a lot of free time...I just really care about this guy and don't want to lose him again...any advice guys?? What is a man's definition of casual dating???

guys needed to answer? My orogianl question was: I was in a long relationship and it has been more than three months since we broke up. I would like to date other guys, instead of staying at home. Three weeks ago, Friday, I met this bartender. I was at a bar with my girl-friend and we noticed that he was looking at me (checking me out). So I flirted with him a little, but it ended there. So I went to the same bar on Saturday and I saw him look at me again. I went there after that and I couldn't even buy a drink from him, and the first night he even gave me a free one. I would like to get to know this guy, but I do not know why he is avoiding me now. Should I say something to him first or just wait for him to come to me, and if he doesn't than to look for someone else? Could it be that someone said something bad about me?? The waitress was looking at me in a weird way the first night. Maybe she likes him and said something??? I do not know. I am confused!!! NEED ADVICE Thank You so much for answering. I was hoping that someone would give me an answer before i make a fool of myself. Here are more details I will start by answering your questions Yes he was flirting with me. He was looking at me and we exchanged eye contact a lot of times. Once I saw that he wasn't coming to me by himself I called him over. When he came I told him that my straw fell into the drink and asked him if I could get another one. He smiled and brought it to me. After that we exchanged eye contact again and I smiled at him. I called him over again. When he came I looked at him in his eyes and said that my straw fell in again. He leaned over at the bar and gave me this very deep look into my eyes and said "what did you do this time". I put an innocent smile on my face and said that I had nothing to do with it that it happened on its own. That is when the waitress came over and said something to him. He was still looking and me and smiling. She looked at me and gave me a fake smile and turned to him and said something to him again, but I couldn't hear what it was. After that i ordered another drink, but he told me that he only makes "Sex on the Beach". After that I ordered another drink and he didn't charge me for it. The bar got very busy than, so I left. I didn't want to be a distraction at his work. Next night I thought that it would be best if I sit at a table far away from him, but where he can see me. So that is what we did. I wasn't paying attention to him, but my friends were keeping an eye on him. He was still looking at me, not my direction but at me. We exchanged eyecontact a few times, but not as much. I wanted him to come over to me if he was interested, or so I thought that. When I went home that night without him asking for my number I was very dissapointed. As you know he was avoiding me after that. I would like to get to know this guy so I went up to him. She looked at me and gave me a fake smile and turned to him and said something to him again, but I couldn't hear what it was. After that i ordered another drink, but he told me that he only makes "Sex on the Beach". After that I ordered another drink and he didn't charge me for it. The bar got very busy than, so I left. I didn't want to be a distraction at his work. Next night I thought that it would be best if I sit at a table far away from him, but where he can see me. So that is what we did. I wasn't paying attention to him, but my friends were keeping an eye on him. He was still looking at me, not my direction but at me. We exchanged eyecontact a few times, but not as much. I wanted him to come over to me if he was interested, or so I thought that. When I went home that night without him asking for my number I was very dissapointed. As you know he was avoiding me after that. I would like to get to know this guy so I went up to him. I went there, and called him specifically to take my order. When he came over, I ordered my drink but before he left I asked him "Are you the type of a guy that waits for a girl to make the first move or you are just not interested." The answer I got, I wished I never asked. “Interested in you?" I looked at him and didn't know what to say, but I wanted to keep my cool. I said something, not sure what. I think I said “no not me, who do you think?" His answer was "When I am working I am working" I asked "So when are you not working", but since we were both speaking on each others ears over a very loud music, he asked me what I said. I didn't want to repeat it so just said forget it He charged me for those drinks. After that I didn't want to let him know that it bothered me. I ordered a drink from him again, this time only for myself. He gave me the drink and didn't want to take money for it. He said "It is on me". I wanted to say "take me out and pay for it." I was at the bar again this weekend, and he gave me another free drink.When one song came on he looked at me and raised his drink. Was this guy hurt by a girl?? Does he not want me??? I WANT HIM!!! Thank You so much for answering. Guys do not date this waitress. She is the perfect girl for one night. I am the kind of a girl that doesn't go up to guys. Guys come to me. - I have the looks and attitude - I have a very respected job - I get asked for my number, not force someone to take it. -- I WANT THIS GUY JUST BECAUSE HE DOESN'T WANT ME

advice about this guy i met online from a dating site....? I need advice about this guy.. Ok, I'm on one of those Catholic match dating site and one guy sent me a message about 3 month ago but in that moment I was dating somebody else and I did not pay attention on his message, almost 1 month ago i email him asking if he still free? and if he likes my pictures ? he answers me..saying- hi and how are you? and how was your day? and for 1 week dissappear I did not hear anything about him until last week he sent me another e-mail asking me how was my day ? how is my job? just hello and no more...I answer his e-mail and he dissappear again... Today he sent me another e-mail saying sorry I had a cold...and how is your day going? and, are you going to celebrate St. patrick's day? I think are stupid questions...I think he is dating another women but maybe he is not sure and he wants to still keeping me in touch like a leash I do not know what I SHOULD do ? if I should not answer anymore his e-mails or... some advice please! thanks!

How do I tell him? so I have been dating this guy, and we have fun together. but he wants all my free time and ALWAYS wants to hang out. I am a private person and I move slow with my heart in relationships. Also, my little sister passed away two months ago, so I have a lot going on with myself and family. Everytime we hang out, and I have to leave. He asks me to hang out that night, or right after work. I find myself making excuses day in and day out. Why cant I just tell him I dont want to hang out every minute I am free? Serious advice only please. Thanks. P.s. I do like to hang out as much as anyone else, like 4 times a week when I am dating.I just cant be around the same person every day all day.

What relationship advice that you know now do you wish you had when you were younger? Title basically says it all...but what do you wish you would have known around the age 18-25 range about relationships and dating that you now know? Guys and girls feel free to answer! :P

GIRLS...what would get you to think about missing your guy..ADVICE PLEASE!!? Here goes: GF broke up w/ me 3.5 wks ago after being together 10 mos. during the last 2-3 mos. I finished a project that I worked with since we began dating and so I had alot of free time on my hands and always was around and wanted to always see her, etc. she is a full time college student and her friends dont live her so they came home for holiday break and i would get upset that she wanted to see them without me and i always wanted to be around her(I know this is really not right). anyways our relationship was amazing and we had a connection that neither of us had ever before and she spoke of the future together, where we would live, kids, dogs, etc. she said when she broke up w/ me she lost attraction for me. I know she has spoke to and hung out w/ her ex recently. I have gotten the typical advice (no contact, move on, etc.) I dont want to though since we have had a connection like no other and I hurt the relationship with my recent neediness..if there is any advice please help me. ps i dont want to forcefully make her jealous b/c those are games

Okay I NEED HELP some serious mental help and ADVICE PLEASE? Well I have a very messed up life so please help me and try to understand this I really appreciate the good people who would just like to give me good advice by the way I am 20 years old this is long sooo please. Okay my dad has always been somewhat abusive especially mentally. Like anyway this is embarrassing for me so please nobody say anything mean. Anyway I went to college (grant and paid for FREE FOR ME) for a while for free but for some reason becasue of my treatment at home I feel and stuff I decided it wasn't worth it and quit (flunked out) I just didn't do any work there anymore. I don't know if that was the right thing too do or not. So then I decided to start doing my own thing instead of working for someone else like I had in the past well I started to buy things at a discount and like sell them for more like on EBAY. IT WORKED OK!!! Now this year I think becsaue of the economy I can't do this so well it isn't working. My dad has ALWAYS had a crazy way or making money with like publications and stuff that half work and then when they don't he PUTS THE BLAME ON ME. He always has done that since I was young he puts blames on me. Yesterday he got so mad at me he said clean your car or I will bash your windshield on your car in. I told him that's illegal and then he said he would bash my face in then instead. After a minute after that he said fine I won't do that I'll just throw you out of the house. Anyway right now I am in no position to be on the street becasue I have no money. I did however register for and pass the test and so on for a surety license becsaue I want to become a bail bondsman. I think there is good money in that but I am not due to get my license for 2 months and it will take time to build money with that. I also was thinking of creating a web site and getting google adsense. Anyway I don't know what to do becsaue getting a job will be hard and trying to sell bail bonds at the same time. Am I normal to think that my dad is mean? Do you think what he said was right? HE has said and done many other things to me that I think are mean, but I have been around it so long I can't tell if it's normal to talk to your family like that or not. Sometimes when I was a kid he would insult me and tell me what a loser I am and how I don't know how to do anything. My mom doesn't like him either she says he is abusive. He has said many VIOLENT THINGS during my life. Some of the stuff I would rather not say on here but yeah it hurts me when I think about it. Also I am gay and people don't know I am gay and that hurts me a lot because my parents would hate me. I feel screwed, I can't seem to get a BF I have tried many times to ask guys on myspace and DATING web sites I feel like that's maybe I way I can leave my abusive dad and stuff but so far I guess people think I am ugly. I don't know what to do should I leave should I go back to school except now I will have to pay for it. Should I just like what should I do? My dad used to talk about shooing people he's so unpleasant to live with....

should i set him free or not? i'm actually confused because i'm dating a guy whom i just broke up but we still act as if we are still together. we go out 4times a month, we have rules with each other, we say i love you, but we don't kiss (we didn't kiss yet. lol) ya, so am i his gf or something?? 2nd thing. this saturday, he said that he is going to fck a girl. i know that some of you will say that that is just normal bcoz wen u get marrd blablabla. its his first time and it hurts me alot to see him with another girl in bed. should i let him do it and avoid him? or stop him? if i'll stop him, how? he is like 50 kilometers away from me. our only communication is just our cellphones. advice me please and thank you. have a good day. i've alread poored out my feelings, still! i'm still confsed if its us or not. i'm not the type of girl who goes first, i usualy wait for the guy's decision. so we were having a fun texting then all of the sudden he texted me hes going to fck. i replied showng that im neutral. it ended there. after a few hrs i textd him, 'don't come to our house on sat, i'll just spoil your fun time, bok(endearment for pig)' did i do the right thing? it's like 3 in the morning here and i still couldn't sleep becoz he wil FCK.

Asking this again, guys or girls your opinions/advice? Would you date a girl.. Was only five feet tall? Drives at least twenty Kilometres/ 10 miles over the speed limit at all times? Was into restoring old cars? Grew up in a tiny town? Who is absolutely disorganized? Plans random cross country road trips at a moments notice? Plays guitar? Is brunette? Has really dark eyes? Hates cell phones? Gets bored easily? Is a free spirit? Forgets EVERYTHING? Loves Bono maybe a little too much? Rides horses? Loves watching sports? Hates playing sports? Is a ballet dancer? So I am 16 and average looking. And all the above is true but everytime I start talking to a guy a like he's not interested and I haven't met any guys who have shown any interest in me. I was texting a guy friend the other night, we are totally platonic, and I wasn't flirting at all. Then out of the blue he says "I'm not ready for a relationship and I really don't think your girlfriend material." . I wasn't even hitting on the guy! I like cars and music. I am currently restoring an old thunderbird and that is what I was texting the guy about when he suddenly thought I was coming on to him. Am I doing something wrong? Why don't guys even take the slightest interest in me?

mostly for guys: Dating: Is a guy who wants sex right away remotely interested in a relationship? Advice wanted for my teen daughters. My husband told me that all men are scum but if they compliment you and tell you that you are beautiful... so beautiful that they want to be in you. Have ANYTHING with the percursor to a relationship? AND If they say no, do any of you then they would have 'shot themselves in the foot' for a relationship as being prudish? I know the 'cow and free milk' concept. I just want your takes on it so it's not just what *I* say. You are answering as if the male is also a teen. Does that also apply to YOU? the 'mature' man?

ADVICE NEEDED!!! need help free points? well im goin iceskating with my boyfriend this week and what things should i do to him? like hug exaple guys what do you like that your girlfriends do when your on a date?

Giving my boyfriend a free pass?? advice pleaseee? Hi id like advice on this from men and women please!! ok so me and my boyfriend are pretty serious, been dating for about a year and i see ALOT of potential in this guy for our future. the only problem is that he was a virgin when we met and i...wasnt...there have NEVER been any problems with me having more experience than him in our relationship ever! but we are planning a future together and i want him to have a sort of 'free pass' that he can use for a month and sleep with any girl he wants with no commitment, meaning no dating other women or anything like that, just sex....am i crazyyy? We both know the difference between love and sex and i feel like itd benefit both of us in the future if he sleep around a bit now before we get married and have kids and then he cheats or something. Im pretty much sure i want him to do this but id just like know other peoples opinions. If youve been in the same situation thatd be even better! Thanx! xoxo

Do You Need Advice About Girls/Females? And why do g.....? Do you need advice about girls/females? Because I have 2 things to say... A question that I've always wondered the answer to and then a comment I've always wanted to make. A. So then someone answer this; When guys need advice about girls/females, WHY THE HECK they always go to another MALE to get it?? I mean, why would GUYS take advice on GIRLS from other GUYS??? (I don't get it!!) & B. If you EVER DO need advice on females, ONLY ASK A FEMALE! The best advice you can get about a girl is going to come from another girl (plus, advice from a guy will more likely get you a slap in the face than a date). Since high school I've been helping guys with girls and enjoy it because indirectly, I'm helping BOTH. So, if you EVER need advice or a question answered that's female related, always feel free to email me. (You can also email me your AIM sn so that we can talk on there more efficiently...) -LazyKat420@yahoo.com

Getting a Valentine? (ladies ur opinion would be great. guys... got any good advice to add?)? Basically thoughts, opinions, suggestions, and/or improvements to the following would be nice... im wondering if this is a good plan and a nice date. if there's anything i can do to improve on it or change for the better. PLEASE tell me?! lol i just want things to go perfectly and smoothly. So valentines day is on saturday. And i got this plan to take out this girl at my school. I'm 16 (Junior) and she's 17 (Senior) and we live in vegas. She's my valentine already... lol =] but anyway I'm thinking about sending her a valentine gram from my school. It goes to their 1st period on friday. Asking her if she would meet me at lunch. Give her a box of chocolates and flowers and stuff. Simple and not too flashy right? Then asking her if she's free saturday. and if she is... it would be a group date with my 2 friends who are dating each other. Planning some laser quest for about an hour. (haha i know its kiddy but fun... kinda like mini golf.) then dinner and a movie. Then if everything went smoothly drive up to lake las vegas (which is one of the most beautiful spots in the vegas valley) and my date and i split up with my friends for about an hour and we get ice cream and ask her to be my girl friend and hopefully get a yes. then take them all home... lol im hoping all this would happen like i want it. well it's not really a question but if u got opinions on it and changes to help me out or better ideas for me to do for vday. please tell me... that's why im posting this to see if there's anything better i can do. haha thanks =]

Guys only i need your advice......asap? okay here's my question okay i'm seeing this guy but he has a girlfriend but they don't stay togther nor do they have any kids together he spend's all his free time with me but i work weekends so when iam working he would tell me he's going to be with her but my thing is why would he keep her around cause when we are together and she calls him he allways tell her not to call him and that if she does it's going to be over now iam not the one that's bother by him havin a girl cause i have a man and we stay together but iam will to just be with him my thing is why stay with someone when me and the other dude is together all the time more then we are with the people we are dating so my thing is why he still with her Iit does not matter if you can't read it all my point is why he still fucking around with her when me and him is together 4 out of 7days a week and the sex is off the hook and his girl is allways calling talking about if she give him money can she come over now thats one thing iam not going to do is pay a guy to come see him not but thats why iam asking you guy's so i can do what i have to do i just needed someone to talk to about this we all over the age of 26 so with that being said do not say anything stupid cause i know what i need to do just trying to see what other's think about it ... you guys didn't read the fact that i said i have a dude to and we stay together read people before you try to help me

any advice?? need help on dating dilema!? me and this guy have been going on dates lately we both just told eachother we like each other and are probably going to start dating more everytime we go out though we go somewhere that cost money i need some tips on things that we could do that are absolutely free stuff you could do at home or around the neighborhood any ideas?? thank you

Girls and guys- please help on some advice? so- i went on this date with a guy that works in the same building as i do- different companies, but the same building. Well, when i got to his apt, he was completely wasted, and kept talking about how this girl i work with wants him to take her out.. .. after sitting there listening to that, and being completely uncomfortable, i just got up and left. Well, like 2 weeks later, he calls me and tells me how sorry he is- and that he wants to take me to dinner to make it up to me, and that he should have never drank before i even got there and he wants to show me the real him... mind you- he did end up taking that girl out and it didnt work, i cant help but feel that im just 2nd best. What do yall think? Should i let him take me out? It is a free dinner and you never know, or should i just forget about it?

Any advice on how to meet guys? I am a 21 year old Christian nurse who works full time at a local hospital on a floor that mainly has patients ages 50 to 90 years old. I am also a full time student working on my BSN. Obviously, I do not have any real free time. When I do have some free time, I would really like to have someone to go out and have fun with. Generally, I would go with friends but all of my friends either are in a relationship or have moved away, and all of my classmates/co-workers are much older than me and have their own families and such. I have tried the online dating thing without any luck, and all of my friends claim I am "too good" for the few single guys they know and will not attempt to set me up with any of them. I don't mean to be arrogant but I do not see where a guy would not like hanging out w/ me b/c many of my patients and friends tell me how attractive I am and how much fun they have with me. Any ideas or advice on how to meet guys to go out with would be appreciated. Thanks in advance! Thanks for the advice! I just wanted to add that yes I am a member of the Church I have attended my whole life (which is the only Lutheran Church around here) and I am the ONLY person between ages 18 and 35. lol. and my school, everything is online so I meet/see no one. The classmates I was referring to are those who I just happen to know through discussion boards and stuff for the classes.

Need advice ASAP!? I've been dating this guy for 6 years. He has never once even thought about marriage. In this time ..we have 2 children together. I made alot of bad choices in this relationship, #1 having sex before marrige, #2 moving in with him, # 3 allowing it for this long. I know he's probably thinking "Why by buy the cow..When the milk is for free"..Well Im cant take it anymore...I've gotta put my foot down!!..We stay together right now..but at the end of the lease which is in a few months..I've already let him know that he's gotta go!!!.. Oh ..and to add to it we constantly argrue ..pretty much on a day to day basis. I've let him know that I want to change my life around..Im not going to be shaking up anymore..Im going to get closer & closer to God! and make a new beggining for my self. He says he's not going anywhere and that He loves me. So the ? is am I wrong for let him go at the end of the lease. Please give me your feedback.

girls and guys- advice please? so- i went on this date with a guy that works in the same building as i do- different companies, but the same building. Well, when i got to his apt, he was completely wasted, and kept talking about how this girl i work with wants him to take her out.. .. after sitting there listening to that, and being completely uncomfortable, i just got up and left. Well, like 2 weeks later, he calls me and tells me how sorry he is- and that he wants to take me to dinner to make it up to me, and that he should have never drank before i even got there and he wants to show me the real him... mind you- he did end up taking that girl out and it didnt work, i cant help but feel that im just 2nd best. What do yall think? Should i let him take me out? It is a free dinner and you never know, or should i just forget about it?

PLEASE Help with ADVICE from your Expereince GIRLS/GUYS..? Here goes: GF broke up w/ me 3.5 wks ago after being together 10 mos. during the last 2-3 mos. I finished a project that I worked with since we began dating and so I had alot of free time on my hands and always was around and wanted to always see her, etc. she is a full time college student and her friends dont live her so they came home for holiday break and i would get upset that she wanted to see them without me and i always wanted to be around her(I know this is really not right). anyways our relationship was amazing and we had a connection that neither of us had ever before and she spoke of the future together, where we would live, kids, dogs, etc. she said when she broke up w/ me she lost attraction for me. I know she has spoke to and hung out w/ her ex recently. I have gotten the typical advice (no contact, move on, etc.) I dont want to though since we have had a connection like no other and I hurt the relationship with my recent neediness..if there is any advice please help me. also i do not want to blatantly make her jealous cuz we have NEVER played games in our relationship

early relationship advice.? im from a middle eastern background, and have started dating a guy from the same background after getting to know each other for five months. its a long distance relationship, and he comes up about once a month...depending on when were both free...but stay in contact by phone and the internet everyday. i sometimes check his facebook and see that he flirts with other girls, and acts single towards them. and whilst we were getting to know each other there was this girl that he would chat to over the internet and he told me that he wanted to "use" her cause he was single.. the girl isnt exactly decent...anyways he told me that hes told her that hes in a relationship but when i checked his facebook it clearly had been a lie. and i have even told my father about him so he can see whether or not hes good or not. sometimes i get confused about what i really want. he seems like a decent guy.. but is it his age that makes him immature or what? any advice...

Desperate for Guy Advice? Please Read This. Thank You? Desperate for Guy Advice? Please Read This. Thank You? I've been hanging out with this one guy for about 3 weeks randomly. I've always had a big crush on him. I finally told him I liked him after a year of keeping it to myself. His reaction was definately good. The reason why I never told him I liked him is because he does have a girlfriend (who also lives with him..) He told me to wait for him, until he breaks it off with his girlfriend. They fight all the time, apparently.. and he wants out of the relationship. So he'll randomly call me when he's not busy & ask me to come over & hang out. Everything was cool until we started sleeping together. I started getting attached and more emotional towards him. He's so sweet to fun to be around. We'll just lay in his bed, and he'll hold me like he actually cares about me. I can't really explain it. His girlfriend is moving out but they're still technically together. Most of her **** is already moved out. He isn't lying to me about that, but I'm so tired of waiting. He really likes me and wants to date me once he's free. I don't want to get hurt, though. I'm falling in love with this guy pretty quick. Like earlier I went to a metal show and he was there with his girlfriend. We had to pretend that we didn't even know eachother, and that killed me. I even noticed his girlfriend was trying to kiss him and he acted real stand-off*ish because he knew I was there. It's a huge secret what's going on between us and I guess it kinda made me sad that he couldn't even come up and say hi. I understand why, he explained to me that he wouldn't be able to prior to the show. BUT if he's breaking up with her why not come talk to me? ya know...He probably won't call me for another 2 or 3 days. I'm just sad over him, and wanna be with him for good. I'm sick of waiting... im just really depressed over the whole situation, and desperately need some good advice. thanx

I know, another singles&dating question, but i need honest advice please.? hello, I am 16 and am a junior in highschool. i knew a guy basically my entire life because my parents were friends with his. but we went to different schools so didn't see eachother much. Anyway, later on in life (16) we ran into him and i got his phone number and we started hanging out and soon enough started dating. the first week was great, he was always talking with me on the phone, taking me to the movies, etc. then we became bfgf but two months later he started pressuring me into doing little things and then he wanted bj and sex and i was just not ready for that. i really cared about him but i am in no way shape of form a slut and it was tough but i had to let him go. all he cared about was sex and everything else was just an act to try to get in my pants... even though he failed. :) anyway, i have been trying to get over this whole mess and not treat every guy as if they were him but it keeps playing in my mind that they are. but that is not fair now is it. i just recently started talking to this guy, he is actually friends with a couple of my really great guy friends. hes so funny and intelligent. he has alot in common with me like sports, what he likes to do in spare time, color, favorite food, favorite place to go, and we get along so well. but of course theirs a catch. like most of the guys i know...he drinks. not every day but once in a while. and does drugs once every couple months.. and im completely drug free typa girl. i just don't know what i should do. if i should stay away from him, or stay friends or have a relationship with this sweet guy if hes interested. it seems like ijust keep putting walls up though... and making problems because i keep thinking something will go wrong and he will hurt me too. any advice or opinions? please only serious answers

PLEASE Girls/Guys I need ADVICE--have you been in this situation???? Here goes: GF broke up w/ me 3.5 wks ago after being together 10 mos. during the last 2-3 mos. I finished a project that I worked with since we began dating and so I had alot of free time on my hands and always was around and wanted to always see her, etc. she is a full time college student and her friends dont live her so they came home for holiday break and i would get upset that she wanted to see them without me and i always wanted to be around her(I know this is really not right). anyways our relationship was amazing and we had a connection that neither of us had ever before and she spoke of the future together, where we would live, kids, dogs, etc. she said when she broke up w/ me she lost attraction for me. I know she has spoke to and hung out w/ her ex recently. I have gotten the typical advice (no contact, move on, etc.) I dont want to though since we have had a connection like no other and I hurt the relationship with my recent neediness..if there is any advice please help me. ps i dont want to forcefully make her jealous b/c those are games

Advice needed...should i call her back? should i ask her out? so i met this girl off a free dating site, i said would u like to chat, she said yes, so i asked her for her aim and she said no u should call me. and she gave me her number. so i called, we talked about college our majors, siblings, she commented on my shirtless pic on my profile, asked if i was shy, etc etc.. then she said she was gonna take a shower "do u want me to call u back?" i said "yea sure" so she said ok talk to you then, i say the same, hang up. oh yeah and during the convo shes like "ive never asked out a guy..its against my beliefs" i ask "so u always wait for the guy to ask out u ?" she says "yeah im traditional when it comes to dating. " should i askk her out when she calls back tonight?? she said shed call back i guess after her shower. she left at 11:40 and its 12:25am. should i call her back now??

Looking for some guy advice? Im a 28 year old girl and ive been looking for someone to date for a while. So far i've found some dating programs to be the best, but anyway, the point is, id like it if someone coudl help me out and tell me what im doing wrong. im not going to list out my life story on here of course, but feel free to email me starrygal74@yahoo.com

Met a guy online...Need advice!? Hi. I'm 19 and i met a 21 year old guy on a free internet dating website. He lives near to me, and we've been chatting on msn for a while. He asked for my number and has basically been texting me...non-stop since then. I feel suffocated. I'm meeting him tomorrow for lunch for the first time.. and i'm scared. He's really nice, and we get on well but....argh. I've never been in a relationship before, and i don't think he's v good with the women either haha... But i duno whether to give him a chance and see how things turn out or not.. Any ideas? Thanks. We met up and he was lovely :) Thanks for all your advice, though!

Any advice will help greatly, relationship wise? I am currently dating a guy that has been my friend for years, and I want it to last forever but I keep thinking that it wont last because i am too quite, but I am just not sure how long it will last or what, if you have any advice please feel free to give it to me, i will give a best answer, please and thanks

i like my friend. advice? haha sorry for coming to yahoo answers for this. i usually hate kids that do this. but everywhere else. people i know can see it. which isnt cooool but. i have a crush on my best friend. shes a really sweet person, and shes beautiful. but. i missed my chance im sure. last june it came out i liked her, and she said she used to have a crush on me. what i didnt know was, she was dating a guy already. and they recently broke up after a year, but they dont act like it. he's moving in a month, so eventually she'll forget about him. but now my best guy friend likes her. and believe me. in a choice between me and him hes got me beat haha. plus i dont want to ruin a friendship because i like her. so. yeah. this was more of a vent haha but feel free to leave advice =]

need advice from a guy and girls point of view...? I am seventeen and I am dating a guy That I like he is also seventeen but he don’t have things going for his self and he smokes weed But he is really sweet and treats me right. Then my first love first every thing has moved Back to town. He says he wants back me back his life, but while he was gone he hurt me by choosing not to get ahold of me. He chose to live his free life and be with the girls up where he was. I feel its not fair for him to all of a sudden come back into my life when he wasn’t there when I needed him. But I do miss him and I believe I still Have strong feelings for him when i first saw him again all my feelings for him just came back. But im dating a new guy that I really like its hard for me. What do I do?

Would you date this guy (not me)? This question is for adult females only.? You are single. He makes you laugh. He tells you that you are beautiful. He tells you that if there is anything that you ever need, then just let him know. He tells you that he likes you. He gets you flowers. He buys you food. He helps you in your school/college/university work. He wants to play with you. He shows you magic tricks. He is short but slightly taller than you. He tells you that he cares about you. He doesn't stare at other women when he is with you. He puts your arms around you as if trying to protect you. He holds your hand when you walk with him. He offers you free advice. He tells you that you are very special to him. He gets good grades. He helps you with anything that you ask of him. . . . Please state your age.

advice needed...should i ask her out? so i met this girl off a free dating site, i said would u like to chat, she said yes, so i asked her for her aim and she said no u should call me. and she gave me her number. so i called, we talked about college our majors, siblings, she commented on my shirtless pic on my profile, asked if i was shy, etc etc.. then she said she was gonna take a shower "do u want me to call u back?" i said "yea sure" so she said ok talk to you then, i say the same, hang up. oh yeah and during the convo shes like "ive never asked out a guy..its against my beliefs" i ask "so u always wait for the guy to ask out u ?" she says "yeah im traditional when it comes to dating. " should i askk her out when she calls back tonight??

please help....need advice from a guy and girls point of view? I am seventeen and I am dating a guy That I like he is also seventeen but he don’t have things going for his self and he smokes weed But he is really sweet and treats me right. Then my first love first every thing has moved Back to town. He says he wants back me back his life, but while he was gone he hurt me by choosing not to get ahold of me. He chose to live his free life and be with the girls up where he was. I feel its not fair for him to all of a sudden come back into my life when he wasn’t there when I needed him. But I do miss him and I believe I still Have strong feelings for him when i first saw him again all my feelings for him just came back. But im dating a new guy that I really like its hard for me. What do I do?

free date ideas? i need some advice. . i just started dateing this guy. . . what are some ideas for a date at my house right now its not snowing but its really cold! i was thinking about a movie and dinner but we did that last time and i thought i would try something new thanks for the help!

guys: am i needy for asking him to call me everyday? advice pls? me and my bf have been dating for 6 months. in the beginning he was calling me everyday, even 2ce sometimes. Now its been less, some days it'll be 1-2 days btwn calls. i asked if he was losing interest in me & he said no, he wants to be with me. his reasoning is that he doesnt feel the need to be calling me all the time anymore, that in the beginning he was getting to know me and had more free time cuz it was the summer and such. now hes back in school and super stressed cuz his program is really intense and so hes pretty much overwhelmed. i told him that when he doesnt call i dont feel like he cares or is thinking about me. he told me i shouldnt base his affection on a phone call and that hes always thinking of me, hes just not the type to flaunt it...hes told me before hes not a phone person. if he needs me or has something to say, he'll call. but he told me that if i feel like talking to him, i can call him whenever i want is this okay? or am i being needy?

need advice on my 1st GF? Hey ive recently started dating this beautiful girl that ive know for a while but ive noticed that shes a bit of a tease. Shes not a slut, dont smoke use drugs and hardly drinks (for me thats perfect because allmost every girl that you meet dose one of those things) The day that i asked her out she had come to my house to str8en out my hair and i had a good feelin that she wasnt gonna come all that was just to str8en my hair! but still she did and after she was done we put on a movie and b4 u knw it we where making out and i asked her out and after she said yes she had reviled to me that she had a boyfriend allready and that she was gonna break up with him so that she could go out with me well the moring i got a phone call from her saying just called me and that the guy had infact dumped her, and that she asked me when i was gonna ask her out and i said to her, when i next meet up with u. BUT shes going away for the x-mas and that she might not be back for new years! and that i might not be able to see her untill nxt year and i said to her that i was going to ask her out inperson and not over the phone because thats better! I was just wondering if there was a site out there giving FREE advice to ppl like me who just got the girl of there dreams and dont wanna lose them because he dosnt no what to do! thx for ur time! TC

I am dating an Indian guy- need help for a succesful relationship? I have been dating an Indian guy (born in India) and now working in UK for 2 months and I am Caucasian. He is comming form a very traditional family, and is torn between his wish to be in harmony with is parents and his longing to be free and be with me. I need your advice about how to make our relationship last and work out the eventual problems? He is of course afraid to tell his parents about us, and anyway it is a too early starge of a relationship anyway. And also he is very honest to me, and he is not one of the sweet talking Inidan guys who promiss golden hills and then return to India and marry a girl their parents chose for him. He actually already told his parents that he does not want an arranged marriage and that he wnats to choose his partner when he wants. So I am now open to hear advices about HOW will and can our relationship WORK OUT inspite of the difficulties and potential problems wit his parents. I know it is difficult, but hay, give me a chance to try!

Can someone give me real advice, that is, speaking from experience....girls and guys? We were talking for like two weeks, and she would text me everyday trying to talk to me, flirting with me, laughing at my corny jokes, we hung out 2 times after class to chill, there was a lot of chemistry. Then it just stopped 4 days after college ended...she kinda still flirts with me, but i have to initiate. I havent seen her in 2 weeks since college ended. Is it because I never actually called her during this time and said things like "if you are free later, hit me up" I also tried to chill with her again and it didn't work out. Kinda my fault because my details were sketchy. I never asked her out on a date, and now I think she might not be interested in me anymore, so it makes it all the harder to ask her out..... I can't let her go like this... If she were to say she is not interested, I would happily move on, but I am real confused right now... She is one of those closed up, "shy with her feelings" type of girl. I think she has been hurt a lot, and is on her guard... She would be talking to me, mad into the convo, flirting, etc and then she just disappear, no response, nothing, I would usually send one more text and back off....then I would text her a few days later and she will start talking to me, get mad into the convo, and then just dissapear again.... what did I do wrong?

Guys. do I look terribly bad? thks for helpin me out.? Pls Give opinions on how to improve my appearnce. Advice Needed. Thks!? Hi:) I need some opinions 2 help myself out. I understand that "Beauty Lies in the eyes of beholder" but dun u guys think dis is jus 2 console thse who r ugly? Truth is cruel tat evry1 goes 4 looks nowadays then character.U MUST hav looks be4 any1 is int 2 noe u. I cld say I m rather positive in other areas of life except 4 my looks.My frens r all beautiful when they talked abt guys dating them I feel inferior thou I jus listen to their woes patiently. I feel damn ugly coz I dun hav even 1 single male who is int in me at all. Hence I dun really talk to guys that much. Becoz I know that I m just livin under e shadows of my frens.Guys talk 2 me because they wan 2 know my girlfrens. I'm jus a stepping stone 4 them 2 noe my frens. Its a pretty sad thing! I hav been trying to lose wt.(my ht is 5'6,wt 138 lbs) I m a asian. Feel free to browse my pic at yahoo360 n comment on how can I improve on my appearance. If can pls provide tips on dieting,make -up and dressing P/S:i'm on e right.

mates,i know its way too long, but i need some SERIOUS & MATURE advices. Please guys, be a lil generous :)?

Advice for a guy trying to date a single mom?? So, I recently asked this girl out. Planned something for the weekend, but nothing specific. She said that she was free, except if something came up with the kids (she has two). I called her the next day to hammer out the details, and then she mentioned that she might go to an amusement park (on Saturday, the day we talked about), since she has free tickets from work, and that is the last day to use them. She mentioned that she’d get back to me tomorrow or Saturday at the latest about what is going on. So… I feel kinda stupid now. I am not sure how to react. I know she is a single mom, and trying to take care of two little ones, but I figured that we were going to do something on the weekend. I even asked if there was any other day that she was free, but there really wasn’t. She said she still wants to hang out with me, even to call her later on if I get bored. I’m not sure what to do… I kinda like her.

How to ask a girl out. Advice, tips, and techniques needed.? There's a girl at school and I really like her. I've talked to her and she is free tomarrow night. Tomarrow in school I want to ask her out to the movies. She's a beautiful girl but well she doesnt date guys often, two pretty popular guys that are decent looking asked her out and she rejected. For this reason i'm not very confident. I haven't dated anyone in awhile because I only ask someone out that I truely care for. I want to suprise her with some roses or something. Any ideas, advide or tips on how to help me do this and pull it off.

Need advice on how to break free from somebody? I know your first thought is - just do it. be strong. But, Ive had this boyfriend for over a year. He's a good guy...but...as far as holding a job or driving a car or holding up any responsibility ...forget it. Im not in love with him but I got too close to him for too long. Now, I want to move on... but he wont accept the fact that we are different people and want different things. I want to date other people but I cant obviously while im still officially with him. I dont have many friends to keep my company because Im always so busy working or going to school. I dont go out to bars and I dont have ways of connecting with other people. How do I end a relationship without making myself miserable and depressed? I think Im only staying with him because I dont want to be lonely and this is true. But, how do you get past being lonely?