understanding men? what is it that they really want in a woman? are men ever intimidated by women and what causes the intimidation? Please answer all.

Do you know any good books about understanding men? I recently read Emmanuel's Book: A Manual which was an interesting book but is more like a guide to attract men. I need a book that talks about how to understand men in long term relationships and marriage.

What are some good books that could help with a better understanding of men? Im looking for a good book that will help me better understand the way a man thinks. With love, relationships, sex, anything pretty much. im 19 years old been in relationships with girls most my life. im bi, however... can never stick to a guy cuz i have no idea how they think, act, ect.

What is the best book on understanding men.? Mainly the differences between men and women and how they contribute to their roles in general.

Are women more sensible and understanding than men? I am beginning to think they are. Men seem rather superficial. What are your thoughts?

Can any kind bengali man guide me in understanding bengali men better? it is mainly about indian bengalis who confuse me so much. is there one word to describe them?

GUYS - if you were teaching "Intro to Understanding Men 101" to a class full of women? What would the first lesson be?

Understanding Men through their dogs?! What does it say about a man with a Pitbull? The Dog is VERY well trained!!

What is the difference between men and women? The whole gender issue seems to be bullshit right? Women don't feel the need to talk more... men are not more visual when it comes to sex... I'm very skeptical that there are any significant differences biologically a lot of it seems to be cultural. I read that women have better emotional intelligence well surely thats a highly abstract cultural biased and contradictary to the fact that they get depressed a hell of a lot more worry and suffer anxiety, they are more prone to eating disorders ect. What should we beleive we live in a culture where men don't have the emotional intellignece to understand women not where women lack the emotional intelligence to understand men right? I don't know what thruth there really is only that when we deal with language we deal with culture and all of its seriously fucked up attitudes that in a sence dictate to us who we are

Need help understanding men? Ok well I met my boyfriend through a friend. We are no longer friends but she used to cause a lot of drama with me even before she dated this guy. After they broke up, she told me the reason she left was he always cheated on her. She said she had proof but I never saw anything. Almost 2 years later, me and him got together. Knowing what she has told me, I was willing and gave it a chance with him. Also, looking at the fact about how "fake" of a friend she was. We been together almost a year now. But things weren't always great with us. One of my male friends from online (in another state) had wrote me saying "Hey babe" about a month after we were together. Which I would be suspicious too if I was in his shoes, but instead of talking about it, he wrote to the guy while I was asleep pretending to be me. When I asked him about it, he said it was "because he didn't like the way he talked to me". Ok another thing, he would always say I act "sneaky", there's cameras in the house, he knows everything I do and say, and he finds out everything, then have the nerve to ask me why I was always paranoid. I'm the type that will open up and be honest, but I get panic attacks and I have low self-esteem, so it made me wonder how I act this way, and why he would say all this. I'm also a big thinker, so I'd question myself for hours trying to figure out if he wanted to leave me, if I did something wrong, etc. Whenever something bothered me, I would try to talk and we would get into arguements he would just say 1 or 2 words and walk away. His big thing was to say "Figure it out". He has wrote to girls saying how good they look, telling 1 that maybe they could hang out and get drunk sometime, wrote his ex's sister saying he would have got with her if he never was with her sister (she wrote him first). I just don't get how everytime I would ask something he would just walk away, or why he says those things about the cameras and etc. He said he wrote to the girl about getting drunk because she has low self-esteem like me and if he comments her then other guys will compete with his comments and he didnt want to write any on mine pictures because he didnt want any guys competing with him over me. We talked about marriage. I am pregnant with a boy, and that is what he wanted is a boy. But he was staying somewhere and got kicked out and moved with his ex for a week, and lied to me and said he didnt talk to her anymore and that there just trying to start more problems. He finally admitted it when they kicked him out and said he told me he didnt live there because he didnt want me to worry. (Lying about it made it 100% worse for me). Whenever we needed something, he would run to his ex for money, we actually lived with her for about a month, she wouldnt stop calling my phone. He can be the sweetest guy you could ever meet, but then again he can be jealous, lie, and make you feel like your going crazy. He always says he loves me, I'm his everything, I mean the world to him, and what does he have to do to make me see it. I just dont understand when just as I feel things are perfect, I find out he's got dating sites, and flirting with tons of girls. He even went to a strip club, he said he would be back in an hour he had to help a friend move, he left around 10pm and came home at 530am. Didnt call, didnt answer, just left me at home, and when he got back, I said where the f*ck were you? He's like at the strip blub. We got into it about that, because he obviously lied about going to help a friend move, but he said all he went for was to drink. So I told him I was gonna go to one, and he got pissed! Why is it ok for him to do things, and I cant? Or for me to have to feel like I'm going crazy, or that my opinion dont count, or maybe I am just jealous. I mean, if he asks whats bothering me and I tell him calmly, why does he have to storm off not saying anything. And if I hold it in from trying not to say the wrong thing, he says "whatever its not good to hold things in".I feel like I can never do anything right. I guess the question is, why do guys lie about doing things if there afraid to worry you, and why do they always walk away from a question, but if you hold it in they get pissed? Please help I wanna save this relationship and figure out what the problem is, I love this man to death and he means the world to me, but I am sick of questioning myself about why he does the things he does. =( Well I do get jealous too, and he knows I have low self-esteem. I just feel like maybe he wants attention? I dont know, but he will tell me I look beautiful, or that its not what someone looks like its whats on the inside that counts, and that I make him happy, and that he dont want anybody else. But for him to get mad about my male friends or walking away when I try to talk is what I dont get. Its kinda like mixed emotions, if that makes sense? He's told me I shouldnt be insecure and he would never hurt me, then why the hell is he on singles dating sites? and they are recent, because he put a picture up that I took of him!! =( In the beginning I trusted him, then he slowly lost it, and now I dont know how to trust him. I am afraid of being hurt and I feel like his excuses makes sense, but then I feel llike at the same time, maybe I'm just being lied to again. Ya know what I mean??

Do women know that men still have to register for the draft and they do not? Do they understand men would have a bunch of penalties including jail time if they do not register? The answers to my last question indicates no.

are their any lists out there that men can read to get a better understanding of women? its kind of a fun exercise im doing, but i'm looking for my husband and i, to better understand how each of our heads works...i found dozens and dozens of lists on "how to understand men" but NONE on "how to understand women". can anyone else find one? please no smart@$$ answers saying "there are no lists because you cant understand women"...basically im looking for help on finding the article/list itself, not advice on women or men...thanks!

How can I find an understanding man? I have a 21 years old mentally ill son. He has schitzoaffective disorder wouldn't take medication. Because of his mood so disorder, I haven't been able to find a man in my life. As soon as I told them about my son's situation, they have no interests on me. I am depressed all the times, I have no one to give me any support except I have some good female friends. I have a good job and a home, but I am trapped with my son's situation. Can someone give me some advice?

How are men different from a women with regard to breaking up? I'm wondering how do men think or what do they usually feel when a relationship with their girlfriend ended. It just seems like they don't show much emotions to a point that a girl will think that they don't really care. That the "love" that a man felt before is not real. I need to understand men better. Your opinions will be highly appreciated. Thanks guys!

Understanding men? Do men are intimidated by women? What are the sign of intimidation? I would like to know a little bet about men. I work with a guy that I like it very much. He seems to like me also. We do not have anything going on. He likes when he explains me the task (work). When I have to explain him, he cuts me quickly as letting me know that he got the point. I read a lot. I know a lot of information. I am really good on what I do. People describe me as “bookworm.” However, he is the only one in all my life (I am under the 30s) that compares me with someone that is not as intelligent as I am. He will point that my second language is not that good as “that person”…etc. He realizes that I do not like it, and he will try to give me compliments…however, I do not understand if he is intimidated…I work during the day and at night I go to the University to get my MS… …and he knows that I am self-made (achieved my success by myself). I am very curious about his reaction and men’s mind. AND...How do you tell that person to back-off politely? ...or how do you tell that person that his comments are not constructive? I just do not want to show that his comments really bother/import me.

Do women with a strong sense of humor understand men more? I have always noticed this and wondered if others thought so to, because I have always got along well with funny women. A lot of times women conceive men as stupid and/or idiots, but mostly its just having a good time. Stupid is funny, anybody every laugh at a "mature" joke?

Do you think men have problems understanding women during conversations, what do you think the problems are? You can also answer vice versa! do you think women have a problem understanding men & for what reason(s)?

Why do you think women and men have trouble understanding each other? I am developing a "language" for a project in my class and am circling around the idea of a language for women that can display their emotions and feelings in a simpler dialect. The project also requires me to create an alphabet so any ideas on that? What are ideas that would be this language more useful for this type of communication?

How do we bring men and women to communicate effectively in relationships without counselling? If Men and women are wired differently, and women struggle to understand men, and vice versa, shouldnt we work on getting them to know each other better, and solve problems like divorce, separation and its consequences.

How many men think women are not understanding but are brain dead?

i thought that lesbian lovers were meant to be more perceptive and understanding than men? My girlfriend is exactly like my ex boyfriend; tough and detached. She just doesn't care about anything unless we're in bed together at which point i become the world to her. Anyone experienced anything similar?

does anybody think women have a more understanding than men? i know women have a more understanding than men talking from young man but thats what i think i careless what you guys say out there i would rather hear it from female

Do you think women understand men more than men understand women? You always hear about men not understanding women and their crazy ways, but I've found that men are really hard to understand, especially in the dating game. What do you think?

Do you find it frustrating sometimes because of the fact that women are different from men? I mean different in ways that women are more emotional, more compassionate, more nuturing, more understanding. Men, not so compassionate, assertive, work oriented, like to be leaders. It's no wonder men and women have a hard time getting along sometimes. were quite different. It's almost like a gift that we are able to love eachother and live together because we are so different. Comments?

I need help understanding this quote in Of Mice and Men? "They come to a ranch an' work up a stake and then they go into town and blow their stake, and first thing you know they're pounding their tail on some other ranch." what does this mean? Does this mean that migrate workers come to a ranch and work up for their money and go to town and spend the money they earn, then they go to another ranch? Correct me if I'm wrong.

What is the most important quality men feel they want in a relationship? Since women have trouble understanding men. I just want a few mens ideas on what they are looking for in a partner

Poll: do you ever need serious help understanding men? When a man gives a woman jewerly when they are just dating....why doesn't he take it back when they break up? Just saying...if I were a guy...I sould SO take that shiz back. And sell it.

What if you like dominant men sexually and understanding, sensitive men in life. Who you will choose? i am very attracted to dominant wild men in bed, but in everyday life a man who can understand me and we can have a conversation. An honest dedicated man. Who you will prefer to have in life.

What can Men and Women do to improve their understanding of each other? Both in general and within personal associations, how would you go about making what you are clear to someone else of the opposite sex? What would you want him or her to do to achieve the same? Is mutual understanding important, or are you content that game-playing and ego roles are the best we can expect?

why are women so eager to be so understanding of men? ok, i admit it. I dont get it. maybe i'm missing the "understanding men chip", but i feel that if a man truly loves a woman, he WILL at least SEEK to "get it", even if he fails. Yes, or no?

please recommend books: understanding men (relationship)? Please recommend any book that could help to understanding men's thought, behavior, and reading into the thoughts behinds his actions...........thank you.

Understanding Men Translations for women. Joke? Understanding Men "IT'S A GUY THING" Translated: "There is no rational thought pattern connected with it, and you have no chance at all of making it logical." "CAN I HELP WITH DINNER?" Translated: "Why isn't it already on the table?" "UH HUH," "SURE, HONEY," OR "YES, DEAR" Translated: Absolutely nothing. It's a conditioned response. "IT WOULD TAKE TOO LONG TO EXPLAIN" Translated: "I have no idea how it works." "I WAS LISTENING TO YOU. IT'S JUST THAT I HAVE THINGS ON MY MIND." Translated: "That girl standing on the corner is a real babe." "TAKE A BREAK HONEY, YOU'RE WORKING TOO HARD." Translated: "I can't hear the game over the vacuum cleaner." "THAT'S INTERESTING, DEAR." Translated: "Are you still talking?" "YOU KNOW HOW BAD MY MEMORY IS." Translated: "I remember the theme song to 'F Troop', the address of the first girl I ever kissed, and the vehicle identification numbers of every car I've ever owned, but I forgot our anniversary." "I WAS JUST THINKING ABOUT YOU, AND GOT YO I WAS THINKING ABOUT YOU AND GOT YOU THESE ROSES FOR YOU Translated: "The girl selling them on the corner was a real babe." "OH, DON'T FUSS - I JUST CUT MYSELF, IT'S NO BIG DEAL." Translated: "I have actually severed a limb, but will bleed to death before I admit that I'm hurt." "I CAN'T FIND IT." Translated: "It didn't fall into my outstretched hands, so I'm completely clueless." "WHAT DID I DO THIS TIME?" Translated: "What did you catch me at?" "I HEARD YOU." Translated: "I haven't the foggiest clue what you just said, and am hoping desperately that I can fake it well enough so that you don't spend the next three days yelling at me." "YOU KNOW I COULD NEVER LOVE ANYONE ELSE." Translated: "I am used to the way you yell at me, and realize it could be worse." "YOU LOOK TERRIFIC." Translated: "Oh, please don't try on one more outfit, I'm starving." "I'M NOT LOST. I KNOW EXACTLY WHERE WE ARE." Translated: "No one will ever see us alive again."

which gender is more simple in understanding, men or women? Men say they don't understand women and women say they don't understand men. Men say women nag and women say he just doesn't listen. Men watch sports instead of her. Women want to go shopping and take there time while the man wants to get out of there as fast as he can.