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need free advice on my relationship asap? im wanting to date this woman who lives with her 19 yr old niece (both from mexico, they dont speak english). ive gotten the vibe that the niece doesnt like me. they also share a phone together. So I hit up the aunt to ask her out sunday. she told me she might not be home sunday but i hit her up anyway with a text. i had a feeling that she might not be there, so her niece would read my text. so i texted her this: "hey is ur aunt there?" ive never talked to her via text before so i just assumed she was reading them. the niece texted back and told me "yes shes coming back tuesday but u know she has a bf dont give her problems calling her." now before this text the aunt and i had a date set for thursday (she asked me out) and i was chill until i got this wierd text from her niece. I texted back: "sry if i caused any problems shes didnt tell me she had a bf" and she texted back "she didnt tell you bc she felt bad about not telling you not to talk to her anymore." is the niece bs'ing me?? the other weird thing is that the niece told me when her aunt is coming back. Ive thought about the possibility of the aunt having a bf, but it doesnt seem to me she wouldnt have the time for one. she's even told me she is surprised i still call her because even her friends have stopped calling her due to her long work hours, she tells me she hardly has any free time (she is a live-in maid, works long irregular hours six days a week) I am really infatuated with this woman i dont think i cant stop ok well if she is bs'ing me why did she tell me when my girl is coming back? I'd figure she'd just tell me she has a bf so dont call back, thats it. this really bothers me. i forgot to mention i am 21 and the aunt is 34

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Relationship help/advice please...? My bf and I have been together for almost 4 months...and everything between us is fine but we both had longer relationships before dating eachother. So we are having a little trouble getting used to eachothers expectations because we are so used to what we had before. I need alot of attention or I tend to get bored and when I'm with someone I prefer to spend my time with them when I have available free time when im not at work or school, etc. He doesnt seem to be as needy so I'm having trouble not being offended when he wants to leave my house to go to sleep or just stay home and relax. Any ways to help get over it and not care so much? On top of that his mother is always in our business...any suggestions...b/c she has a big mouth which means everyone is in our business n that makes it hard for a new relationship to work...we have a great connection i want to make it work better. suggestions please! ty :]

early relationship advice.? im from a middle eastern background, and have started dating a guy from the same background after getting to know each other for five months. its a long distance relationship, and he comes up about once a month...depending on when were both free...but stay in contact by phone and the internet everyday. i sometimes check his facebook and see that he flirts with other girls, and acts single towards them. and whilst we were getting to know each other there was this girl that he would chat to over the internet and he told me that he wanted to "use" her cause he was single.. the girl isnt exactly decent...anyways he told me that hes told her that hes in a relationship but when i checked his facebook it clearly had been a lie. and i have even told my father about him so he can see whether or not hes good or not. sometimes i get confused about what i really want. he seems like a decent guy.. but is it his age that makes him immature or what? any advice...

relationship advice..im going crazy? this is a situation i never thought i would find myself in. so here it goes..i have been dating a man for the last 3 years. i guess its time to admitt that it was a pretty bad relationship. we fought all the time, but still couldnt break away from eachother. i guess some people have called him mentally/emotionally abusive...i dont know, i never thought of it that way. anyways it took three years for me to break free from him and every day since then i have missed him. he was my best friend and i got so attached. its been 4 months since weve been broken up and ive met someone else. this someone else is the absolute most perfect example of everything any women could ask for. he was rasied right, and knows how to be respectful and sweet. hes the complete opposite of my ex. im so happy and feel so good about him, but hes not the one i love. now 4 months later my ex of 3 years says he cant be without me and he loves me and needs me back. and i know he loves me. he says he can change and things will be perfect. this is so difficult because yes i love him, but how do i know he will change? and if he doesnt im giving up something amazing. this would be the millionth time weve broken up and everytime we get back together its great for a month and then turns to shit. but im in love and want to believe him. im so confused. any advice would be greatly appreciated.

relationship advice? I need some advice on a girl i like. We dated for a while and now she split up with me saying she doesn't know what she wants in life, and just wants to be friends she says she still loves me but wants to be free for awhile. Any advice?

Some relationship advice please? Ok, I'm 17 and there's a girl, 18. She just got out a really terrible and long relationship. We'd been seeing each other as friends for a while and decided to go on a date. Now, after date numero uno: I get a text from her after saying that she does like me as more than a friend and wants us to keep dating but she isn't ready for a serious relationship yet. I kind of took this as her being to nice to say "lets just be friends" at first but after meeting up for coffee one day it seemed she was being genuine and I understood about her previous relationship. So here's the problem, I am looking for a serious relationship but feel willing to let her enjoy being single (ie she can see other guys, I can see other girls) for a while until she becomes comfortable with getting close to someone again (again, stressing she came out a very bad relationship so I felt this could be understandable). I let her know I was looking for something serious in the long term but am fine with casual dating in the short-term and that I won't just be her back-up until she meets someone she does want a relationship with. She seems to have a need to date others for a month or two first (until Summer really). Then she seems to feel we might be able to move on a bit into a relationship (presuming things are fine in the time being). She does say she doesn't ever want to get into a relationship that involves calling, texting and seeing each other every day and her education comes before any relationship (again, don't know wether this is fair enough or just trying to push me away) What do you reckon: Is this normal? Am I just being anxious because I really like her? I find it hard to judge and find it complicated. She deserves some time to be free and single but I can't help but feel maybe she's just hanging onto me until someone better comes along. Stress! Anyone, particularly women have any opinion on all this? Should I get out before I get hurt or let her have her space for a while. Sorry for the long question! Also; We are both in college. She is a busy person, she doesn't seem to meet up often but thinks twice a month would be good, maybe thats important aswell?

I am dating an Indian guy- need help for a succesful relationship? I have been dating an Indian guy (born in India) and now working in UK for 2 months and I am Caucasian. He is comming form a very traditional family, and is torn between his wish to be in harmony with is parents and his longing to be free and be with me. I need your advice about how to make our relationship last and work out the eventual problems? He is of course afraid to tell his parents about us, and anyway it is a too early starge of a relationship anyway. And also he is very honest to me, and he is not one of the sweet talking Inidan guys who promiss golden hills and then return to India and marry a girl their parents chose for him. He actually already told his parents that he does not want an arranged marriage and that he wnats to choose his partner when he wants. So I am now open to hear advices about HOW will and can our relationship WORK OUT inspite of the difficulties and potential problems wit his parents. I know it is difficult, but hay, give me a chance to try!

Need some relationship advice regarding a Christmas Present, Should I, OR should I NOT buy a gift for_____? My boyfriend of 5 years. I may seem bitter because of gift exchanging of the past. You see the first Christmas we had together, we were together for 2 months, I got him an average nice watch, and I in return, received nothing. I really can't remember if we agreed to exchange....I just sort of figured we would...So I never got a present. Then a few months later, on Valentines Day, I never got a card, a present, a romantic dinner, a free back rub...nothing. I was actually lonely and depressed, and went out to dinner on my own. I said, "Oh I think we need some Toilet paper and so im going to go to town and maybe pick up a coffee....For my birthday that year, I turned 21 and I just remember we bought some alcohol, but I ended up not drinking it because I must have caught a virus and got sick. I broke up with him, dated someone else for about 6 months, then realized throughout everything with my original boyfriend, I loved him and then we got back together. I got back with him just a few days before our second christmas. He bought me pretty diamond earings while we were apart, and he was planning on giving them to me before he knew we would end up back together. That next valentines day, I think he got some roses, thats all he could afford, which is fine. The next Christmas, he SAID he got me a watch, but that it got stolen from his car when he was hanging out at a friends house. Which I could believe him on that he's not a liar, however, I never received a back up present of any kind, (I thought I would). The following Valentines day, He didnt get me sh*T, and I got so mad, so ten minutes before midnight, he got me a huge huge bear and some flowers from some guy out on a corner. The following Christmas, he got me a few "GIFT CARDS", xmas eve when everyone was closed at like 8 or 9PM, because I was complaining about how sad it would be that I wouldnt have anything to open from him. He returned from the store with those gift cards that you can buy at grocery stores/minute marts, the ones that are hanging on the walls, It was for borders book stores which I do love books, and also a massage card, however, I never used the gift cards, lol. not to be mean or wasteful, but its true that like 60% of people dont actually use them, its a horrible waste, they either get lost, or the people dont have time to use them. K I promise, finally we're getting somewhere with this story. So last year, our 4th christmas together, I didnt get him a gift, so he could see what its like to get diddly squat. He spent like $500.00 dollars on me. I am NOT about money, but im just wondering if I should get him a gift this year? He is a great guy, we are going to be getting married in 2010/2011 and REALLY are in love, and besides these weird gift exchanges, he has prooved himself beyond what I could ever have expected. In fact right now he is planning out a vacation for january just the two of us. All is well emotionally/financially/romantically etc, but do I get him a gift? What do you think. I have no one else to talk about this with. Thanks for reading my long @SS STORY. haha

Where do I stand: dating advice? Met a lovely man who spends his limited free time with me. He says we are not in a relationship although we are intimate with each other. I am really falling for him but feel worried that I have got it all wrong. I don't want to be heavy and demand that he's mine but I am really into him. He asked me what i wanted from him and I said nothing. Should I have said something else. There is no long term prospects for us as his work will take him abroad in 3 years time and I am stuck in this country. Any advice most appreciated.

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Giving my boyfriend a free pass?? advice pleaseee? Hi id like advice on this from men and women please!! ok so me and my boyfriend are pretty serious, been dating for about a year and i see ALOT of potential in this guy for our future. the only problem is that he was a virgin when we met and i...wasnt...there have NEVER been any problems with me having more experience than him in our relationship ever! but we are planning a future together and i want him to have a sort of 'free pass' that he can use for a month and sleep with any girl he wants with no commitment, meaning no dating other women or anything like that, just sex....am i crazyyy? We both know the difference between love and sex and i feel like itd benefit both of us in the future if he sleep around a bit now before we get married and have kids and then he cheats or something. Im pretty much sure i want him to do this but id just like know other peoples opinions. If youve been in the same situation thatd be even better! Thanx! xoxo

Need advice on how to break free from somebody? I know your first thought is - just do it. be strong. But, Ive had this boyfriend for over a year. He's a good guy...but...as far as holding a job or driving a car or holding up any responsibility ...forget it. Im not in love with him but I got too close to him for too long. Now, I want to move on... but he wont accept the fact that we are different people and want different things. I want to date other people but I cant obviously while im still officially with him. I dont have many friends to keep my company because Im always so busy working or going to school. I dont go out to bars and I dont have ways of connecting with other people. How do I end a relationship without making myself miserable and depressed? I think Im only staying with him because I dont want to be lonely and this is true. But, how do you get past being lonely?

please advice on relationship from mature people who can help me out!!!? she started dating someone off and on for 4 years. finally she met me and started dating june 13. idk what we were thinking but we talked about having a baby immediately. so we had sex and tried getting pregnant. a month later july 27 she found out she was pregnant. she told me she was shocked because she had a miscarriage october of 07, and thought she just cudnmt have a baby at all period. so was this a experiment on me? why me if so? i had to go to school and jen said she wud move with me to support me. up until the week before i left it was cool, then she laid it on me that she didnt wanna go, and made up excuses that she didnt wanna live with 3 other guys and she wanted to stay near her family. so i almost didnt graduate and finish my dream but i fought through it and graduated. while i was at skool it was hard to focus because she had my mind screwed up. I would drive home then back then home then back numerous times. when i would drive home she would only see me when she wanted to. i drove 3 and a half hrs, which i didnt wanna do, and she decides she wud take a nap before seeing me. if i drive home make the commitment to see me. i saw a counselor to help me through the trouble and even got my medicine changed and it helped. i started getting my feelings under control. at school she would talk so nasty and her mouth was unbelieveable. their was no making my point clear b/c she would come back with some obnoxious comment or remark that really hurt a sensitive guy like me. it took alot out of me and stressed me out. let me take you back before i left for school. we were at a stop light and i planned on finishing school via online. we were at a red light and she says "im so happy everythings going my way." thats selfish isnt it? we went to the casino for a night which my mother treated us to a nice accomodated room, if that wasnt enough i wake up and see she had talked to her ex bf for a half hour a couple nights ago WHICH she forgot to tell me about. i bought into it seeing how they just broke up. i come home to visit a weekend and i see they were texting. obviously i was upset and told her to leave. instead of trying to make me see differently, she nicely, got up and left and didnt say a word. wouldnt you fight for the one you love.? so i then tell her to quit her job trying to be there for her. i didnt want her workingh in that type of environment. i told her i would take care of her threw her pregnancy which i did. one night we werrent feeeling the baby, she wanted to wait till the next morning to call the doc but i took it upon my self to bring her right then and there. even i had to work at 9am the next morning in manlius, a half hour drive. for her birthday i paid over $2,000 in her bills so she would be stress free and we could start a clean slate and she wouldnt have to worry about not having money, but still to this day im called an asshole and fake. one night before school she told me she wud be over to my house after she went to her friend yo yo's. well was she rly even there? b/c she never came over and didnt even call to tell me that. so as im skipping around here i forgot to mention i asked her how this decision even came about. she said we decided to get pregnant when we were drunk. i asked her if she regretted it then she said she will never regret the baby but she wished she wud of gotten to no me a little bit more. we didnt get to no e/o until she got pregnant. i am always very respectful to her parents and they like me. she doesnt give mine the time of day and im a family guy, thats a problem. she said she doesnt no who my mom is but she isnt gonna kiss her ass, shes 66! have some respect. she was into drugs bad in her day and had problems like got kicked out of the house. i straightened her out a little but she is very selfish. yeah she does clean the apartment and make me dinner but i work full time and pay the rent, utilities, groceries, and cable phone and internet, something i cant do alone.she keeps talking bout how she cant wait to go out and drink once the baby comes out. she doesnt wanna go anywhere in public w me but when we fight she goes anywhere with whoever. if i dont spend 24/7 with her she gets very emotional and blames it on me. i have a lil bro i chilled w my whole life and i spent the weekend w him and she says i never have any time for her anymore she says. we live together hows that possible. i work all day and wanna watch the game, ill b in the living room shell b in the room watching lifetime or some boring program, if she wants to spend time she can come accompany me in the living room. she is so down on her self whenever i tell her shes beautiful she comes back with she has a double chin and shes fat. i hve doner this and complimented her for 8 months but its gets old when she doesnt appreciate it. however she thinks is how shell act. its all her her her. she like gangsters and i have turned into be a respectful young man and that must n

Need some advice here on this girl, anyone feel free to reccommend ideas...theres further reading...? Met this girl after playing a gig, and we hit it off pretty well, and shes absolutely gorgeous, but a party animal, im a party animal too, but when it comes to liking someone, which is rare in my case cause i usually just wanna date, but i really like this girl and i know she likes me cause weve told each other, but how do i get this girl to be my girlfriend and take us seriously. I thought about asking her where she would like to go with this, because shes stayed over, but i wont allow myself to sleep with her yet cause i like her too much and ive always told myself i wont sleep with someone that i like cause it will just take all the excitement away from the relationship. i have this rule where if i do sleep with a girl immediately then i wont date her, and ive been encountering that way too much lately and i really want a girlfriend and i want her to be my girlfriend, but i have to tell her the right way and find the right time, but i want her to know that im serious about her.

I really need some advice- should I move out, will it help my relationship? Please... help? I moved in with my boyfriend after dating for just about 6 months... I was always at his house and we figured it just made sense to make it more permanent by bringing in my clothes and things... The thing is that, he currently lives with his mom (we are both still in college, graduating this year) and we have plans to move to Chicago in July.... So... I realized that I dont feel like myself anymore. Before I moved in, I was more fun, free, and happy... He and I have a good relationship, we are still happy- but it is just SO SO SO overwhelming and stressful living with his mother- she doesnt clean or cook and it's just, well hard to explain, but it is bad! I am staying at my parents house, my real home- for 5 days and I dunno, I have been thinking about going back to possibly just like dating him- not living together but seeing him 2-3 times a week... I don't want to destroy anything, but I feel like maybe it will get even worse by staying there? Our sex life has diminished and I am often quite upset being there ... Can anyone offer me some advice- should I just stick it out in that house? I mean we are moving soon, I know- will moving back home make it worse? I don't want to ruin our good relationship, but i just dont know!! hm, ok i didnt really want to get too into this but... i am not actually blaming it on the mother in law- my bf and i do have a good relationship and the problems we have revolve around the house- i'm telling you this house is falling apart everywhere you look, there is no heat in the house, it's dirty, his mom leaves her crap everywhere, she eats the food i buy, i mean... sure maybe i should just suck it up... but i have the option of moving back home for a bit i don't want to leave my boyfriend, like break up... but wonder if we just shouldnt live together.... phew

Relationship Advice....? PLEASE HELP? ok, I've been in a long distance relationship for a year and four months with an older guy and I love him. But I'm a teenager (17) and I like a guy at my school and he also likes me. The guy I like has a girlfriend but the only reason he is dating her is because she is moving soon. Should I stay with my boyfriend even though I want to have some free time and live up my teenager years before I go to college. Which I might be attending the college he goes to. I don't know if I should just stay with my boyfriend and forget about the guy I like or try dating a new guy. I don't want to lose my boyfriend I just want to see what else is out there. I don't want to be tied down in high school, and I told my boyfriend I want him to be my first since I'm a virgin but the guy I like said he wants to be my 1st and I told him I want to give it to someone I love and I already told someone else they could be my first. Was that mean? please help me do I stay in this hard long distance thing or let go??

19 year old girl in need of advice on a new relationship...? Hi, like I said I'm 19 and I just met a great guy about a week ago. We had a wonderful first date and he called me the next night to chat for about 45 minutes. He told me to feel free to call the next day, so I did and we talked for the same amount of time. Now, aside from online chatting, we haven't talked on the phone. I don't know if I should call him or wait. And worse... does this mean he's losing interest? He definitely seemed into me whenever we talked but now that it's been a few days I'm starting to worry. I'll give out 10 points to the most helpful answer!

looking for a long term relationship...? i just finished my masters course and am currently doing some volunteer work. i've been single the whole of... well forever, cuz i was focusing on my academics. now i'm looking for a serious realtionship. where can i meet girls who want the same kindo f relationship. i treid a couple of free dating sites and made a few freinds in uni and on trips abroad but i just can't seem to get past the friend level. any advice would be appreciated.

make/break relationship !! ..SERIOUS HELP needed,sorry for the longest question:( ..but SINCERE ADVICE,URGENT? I would like to add, that his family is yet not aware of us. Secondly, its not that he got this marriage issue up because I was forcing him for this or something, I in fact never thought about it initially, He himself got to discuss this with me, when he realized that we were getting serious, and on the other hand his parents were looking for a bride for him (though he is not getting married before 2 more years). So, it was he himself, who confessed in and said initially, when he for the first time tried avoiding me.I WOULD WANT TO ADD ONE MORE THING, IF ANYBODY OF YOU WANTS TO KNOW SOMETHING MORE, OR YOU HAVE A QUESTION IN MIND , THEN PLEASE WRITE IT, I'L ANSWER YOUR QUESTION IN "ADD DETAILS" , AND PLEASE , RESPOND BACK AGAIN :) (i faced this, when i posted the question last time, there are people asking questions, so i would answer them here, you please respond again after reading the details again. ) Thank you!!! SORRY AGAIN FOR THE QUESTIONN BEING TOOO LONG .... THNX :)

Relationship advice for me and my LAZY boyfriend? I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half, and I love him. He is sweet, generous, kind; we love to talk to each other and cook together. We get along, it is very comfortable. This is the best relationship I have ever been in. When we first met everything was great, he was working, he had money in the bank and now, he doesn't have a job, he lives with his parents, but stays at my house ALL of the time for free. He does not really have career ambitions, and doesn't have many suggestions on how we will earn a sufficient living for our family in the future. I don't want him living at my house anymoe. He is depressed all of the time with not having a job or any money. He has been unemployed for over a year. I have tried to encourage his job search, looking at places that are hiring with him, giving him suggestings on where to apply. I have tried to stay positive through this whole thing but I am really getting fed up with it. I don't want to break up with him, I love him. Help!!

make/break relationship !SERIOUS HELP NEEDED,sorry for the longest wuestion:(..but SINCERE ADVICE !! URGENT? I would like to add, that his family is yet not aware of US. Secondly, its not that he got this marriage issue up because i was forcing him for this or something, i infact never thought about it initially, He himself got to discuss this with me, when i realised that we were getting serious, and on the other hand his parents were looking for a bride for him (though he is not getting married before 2 more years). So, it was he himself, who confessed in and said initially, when he for the first time tried avoiding me. SORRY AGAIN FOR THE QUESTIONN BEING TOOO LONG ....BUT I GENUINLY NEED SOME SERIOUS ADVICE .. :) THNX A TONN ... I WOULD WANT TO ADD ONE MORE THING, IF ANYBODY OF YOU WANTS TO KNOW SOMETHING MORE, OR YOU HAVE A QUESTION IN MIND , THEN PLEASE WRITE IT, I'L ANSWER YOUR QUESTION IN "ADD DETAILS" , AND PLEASE , RESPOND BACK AGAIN :) (i faced this, when i posted the question last time, there are people asking questions, so i would answer them here, you please respond again after reading the details again. ) thankyou !!!

Dating men with kids? I am dating a divorced man who has young kids, he has them almost every weekend (vs. standard every other weekend). Not too long ago, I dated another divorced man, same situation, every weekend he had his kids. I understand they want to see their kids every chance they get, but should there be some balance? I don't have kids, so I don't know. I do believe the ex-wives have it better. They have their kids during the week, and on weekends they are free to date, and develop new relationships. Not surprisingly, in both cases, ex-wives were happily remarried. Sometimes I wish he had custody - he would have his kids during the week and have some weekends free for me. Any advice, does he need to balance better or do I just need to assess whether I can handle the limited time we have?

make/break relationship !! ..SERIOUS HELP needed,sorry for the long-est question :( ..but SINCERE ADVICE, ASAP

Indian guy causcasian girl - need your advice for sucesfull dating? I have been dating an Indian guy (born in India) and now working in UK for 2 months and I am Caucasian. He is comming form a very traditional family, and is torn between his wish to be in harmony with is parents and his longing to be free and be with me. I need your advice about how to make our relationship last and work out the eventual problems? He is of course afraid to tell his parents about us, and anyway it is a too early starge of a relationship anyway. And also he is very honest to me, and he is not one of the sweet talking Inidan guys who promiss golden hills and then return to India and marry a girl their parents chose for him. He actually already told his parents that he does not want an arranged marriage and that he wnats to choose his partner when he wants. So I am now open to hear advices about HOW will and can our relationship WORK OUT inspite of the difficulties and potential problems wit his parents. I know it is difficult, but hay, give me a chance to try!

I need some advice-how do I get back into dating after a long marriage? Not looking for just physical thing!? I have tried internet dating site and got lots of replies but most either just disappear, never talk back when I reply--even something as simple as How are you? What do you like to do in your free time? What kinds of food do you like? etc. If they don't disappear, they come on very strong, want to meet right away and are very concerned with physical needs, shall we say? Aren't there any men who really want a relationship not just a quick physical thing? I am 48, by the way but most people say I look younger, around late 30's or early 40s(not bragging just really is what people say). I tend to attract (on the internet anyway) younger men (30's) or much older (65 & up)--very few from 45 to 50. I am not a clingy needy person, pretty independent, but do expect to be treated like a person not just body parts! Where I live, it seems women a lot uglier and meaner (b*-mean, if you know what I mean)seem to have no trouble getting bfs and hubbies (usually they meet at bars though) What gives? The only bars/clubs around where I live are pick up places, with shootings, etc. Only 1 decent bar but mainly college kids. No movie theatre, no clubs or organizations except Jr. League and country club--not in my price level, not my society level. 1 tiny tiny mall. Can't afford to drive too far to find somewhere to go (closest place at least 50 miles away) I also work at a very tiny family business--no chance of dating co-workers. Plus, I have been divorced for a while now--didn't date for a long time, but really feel ready now (several years since divorce). I get looks at Walmart and grocery stores, but when I talk to them, it seems a woman comes around the corner and makes sure I know they're a couple. There isn't anywhere else to go around here--I am not the only one that say this--the 20 somethings have a hard time finding a date--not a hard time finding a one-night stand, but hard to get real dates from what I have heard (all ages)

Indian guy causcasian girl - need your advice for sucesfull dating? I have been dating an Indian guy (born in India) and now working in UK for 2 months and I am Caucasian. He is comming form a very traditional family, and is torn between his wish to be in harmony with is parents and his longing to be free and be with me. I need your advice about how to make our relationship last and work out the eventual problems? He is of course afraid to tell his parents about us, and anyway it is a too early starge of a relationship anyway. And also he is very honest to me, and he is not one of the sweet talking Inidan guys who promiss golden hills and then return to India and marry a girl their parents chose for him. He actually already told his parents that he does not want an arranged marriage and that he wnats to choose his partner when he wants. So I am now open to hear advices about HOW will and can our relationship WORK OUT inspite of the difficulties and potential problems wit his parents. I know it is difficult, but hay, give me a chance to try!

i need good relationship advice.? alright, here's the skinny: so i'm dating this guy, right? he's amazing. we met at the beginning of last year and we've been best friends ever sense. we've been dating for five months now. there's only one problem: i had to move away. now i'm 100+ miles away from him and only get to see him about once a month. i know that long distance dating can sometimes work if you still keep in touch via phone and myspace. but lately, it's been getting really hard to not have him right here with me. so how do i tell him that? i still want to be best friends but what if he doesn't see the same way i do? i want him to be free to like other girls and to have fun with his friends without feeling bad that i'm not there with him. please help! i really need to tell him soon!

Anyone with experience please feel free to give advice..? My ex boyfriend and I recently broke up, the day that we ended our relationship he went out to dinner with his ex, and i recently found out that he had proposed to his 2 past girlfriends, and yes, we were engaged too. I also saw him the day after out to lunch with a girl (coincidentally) that "he just met" I'm not your typical girl and don't often date, in many aspects I'm very mature for my age (i'm 21). This is my first serious relationship and I put everything into it and I'm still very upset, I know people keep saying to just get up and move on, but I'm finding it hard, any advice would be greatly appreciated.. thank you :)

mostly for guys: Dating: Is a guy who wants sex right away remotely interested in a relationship? Advice wanted for my teen daughters. My husband told me that all men are scum but if they compliment you and tell you that you are beautiful... so beautiful that they want to be in you. Have ANYTHING with the percursor to a relationship? AND If they say no, do any of you then they would have 'shot themselves in the foot' for a relationship as being prudish? I know the 'cow and free milk' concept. I just want your takes on it so it's not just what *I* say. You are answering as if the male is also a teen. Does that also apply to YOU? the 'mature' man?

I need some real relationship advice from those who are experienced!? My girlfriend and me have been dating for 2 years, living together for six months. She said she is confused about her feelings and feels that we have become too comfortable with each other. We have both alienated our friends because we honestly spend every second of our free time together. She said she misses times when I have been gone and then come home to her and vice versa. How should I handle this? I will definitely give her some space, since we both need it. Should I see this as a sign we are through? She said she loves me and I am a huge part of her life? How can I make her miss me when we are apart?

if i keep dating him could it lead to a serious relationship? I have been dating this fun attractive man who has an amazing zest for life I would call him a free spirit or an opportunist. He has mentioned to me how important having his freedom is to him and how he enjoys being able to do what ever he pleases like swim or golf etc without answering to no one. I wonder if he will want a special lady in his life to love I would like to be her but he only asks me out on dates like to play golf or ride bikes go grab a drink and so forth I know he is dating other women but the more dates i go on with him the more I fall in love and desire more with him he is all i think about it makes it hard for me to date other men because they just don't add up to this guy I just need advice on what i should do from this point. Thanks so much for your advice :)

urgent please help with ADVICE girls.....on RELATIONSHIP? Here goes: GF broke up w/ me 3.5 wks ago after being together 10 mos. during the last 2-3 mos. I finished a project that I worked with since we began dating and so I had alot of free time on my hands and always was around and wanted to always see her, etc. she is a full time college student and her friends dont live her so they came home for holiday break and i would get upset that she wanted to see them without me and i always wanted to be around her(I know this is really not right). anyways our relationship was amazing and we had a connection that neither of us had ever before and she spoke of the future together, where we would live, kids, dogs, etc. she said when she broke up w/ me she lost attraction for me. I know she has spoke to and hung out w/ her ex recently. I have gotten the typical advice (no contact, move on, etc.) I dont want to though since we have had a connection like no other and I hurt the relationship with my recent neediness..if there is any advice please help me. PS WE HUNG OUT YESTERDAY AND IT WENT WELL, I WASNT PUSHY OR ANYTHING..NOT SURE WHAT TO DO FROM HERE

Do you think I did the right thing? Please feel free for any advice!? Yesterday, I told the woman that I love that I am ready for a commitment and that I am tired of just being her lover. I want more. I felt used by her bc she will never commit to me yet she will go all the way to Cali to try to meet someone else for a long term. I told her I am way better than the other people she's ever dated. Those people treated her like crap, they called her names, used her, and wasted her time. I always say sweet things to her, and if I ever hurt her feelings I sincerely apologize. I gave her a choice to commit to me or we cannot mess around anymore bc I'm tired of playing around and I want something more deeper more complex. She said she can't handle a relationship right now. She has told me that for 3 years now. Is it that she just doesn't like me or what most women would die to date me. It's that she's the only one that won't be with me in a deeper way, but she loves sex with me. Please honest answers. Thank you. I'm so tired of hurting. After, I told her all this she hasn't even called or text me.

Any advice will help greatly, relationship wise? I am currently dating a guy that has been my friend for years, and I want it to last forever but I keep thinking that it wont last because i am too quite, but I am just not sure how long it will last or what, if you have any advice please feel free to give it to me, i will give a best answer, please and thanks

make/break relationship..SINCERE ADVICE PLEASE,sorry for the longest question:( .SERIOUS,MATURE ADVICE.urgent! I would like to add, that his family is yet not aware of us. Secondly, its not that he got this marriage issue up because I was forcing him for this or something, I in fact never thought about it initially, He himself got to discuss this with me, when he realized that we were getting serious, and on the other hand his parents were looking for a bride for him (though he is not getting married before 2 more years). So, it was he himself, who confessed in and said initially, when he for the first time tried avoiding me.I WOULD WANT TO ADD ONE MORE THING, IF ANYBODY OF YOU WANTS TO KNOW SOMETHING MORE, OR YOU HAVE A QUESTION IN MIND , THEN PLEASE WRITE IT, I'L ANSWER YOUR QUESTION IN "ADD DETAILS" , AND PLEASE , RESPOND BACK AGAIN :) (i faced this, when i posted the question last time, there are people asking questions, so i would answer them here, you please respond again after reading the details again. ) Thank you!!!

Please Read!!~Relationship Advice?? [{Kinda Long} Boys and Girls]? When i was younger {like 10 or 11} I fell in love with this boy in my neighborhood. He visited his grandfather every summer an every summer we "Dated". As we grew older he stopped visiting as often, but when we did see each other we always picked up where we left off as if we were still "together". I am now going on 17 and he is 18 about to graduate. He has his own car now and comes back to the neighborhood and visits everyday. And we have once again...Picked up where we left off. We see each other constantly, but we never really get a chance to talk. I mean we text back and forth but when i call he's usually busy and doesn't return my calls. I want to be with him soo bad I don't think he realizes it. He says that he is always busy and doesnt want to call me late at night when he is free. So my question is what do I do, to get him to fit me into his schedule? Or do I just settle for what we have now and wait until he is "free"? Do I make the first move? Or let him?

Make/break relationship..SINCERE ADVICE PLEASE.sorry for the longest question :(but SERIOUS ADVICE ASAP,URGENT I would like to add, that his family is yet not aware of us. Secondly, its not that he got this marriage issue up because I was forcing him for this or something, I in fact never thought about it initially, He himself got to discuss this with me, when he realized that we were getting serious, and on the other hand his parents were looking for a bride for him (though he is not getting married before 2 more years). So, it was he himself, who confessed in and said initially, when he for the first time tried avoiding me.I WOULD WANT TO ADD ONE MORE THING, IF ANYBODY OF YOU WANTS TO KNOW SOMETHING MORE, OR YOU HAVE A QUESTION IN MIND , THEN PLEASE WRITE IT, I'L ANSWER YOUR QUESTION IN "ADD DETAILS" , AND PLEASE , RESPOND BACK AGAIN :) (i faced this, when i posted the question last time, there are people asking questions, so i would answer them here, you please respond again after reading the details again. ) Thank you!!!

Dating an Indian guy - I need advice .? I have been dating an Indian guy (born in India) and now working in UK for 2 months and I am Caucasian. He is comming form a very traditional family, and is torn between his wish to be in harmony with is parents and his longing to be free and be with me. I need your advice about how to make our relationship last and work out the eventual problems? He is of course afraid to tell his parents about us, and anyway it is a too early starge of a relationship anyway. And also he is very honest to me, and he is not one of the sweet talking Inidan guys who promiss golden hills and then return to India and marry a girl their parents chose for him. He actually already told his parents that he does not want an arranged marriage and that he wnats to choose his partner when he wants. So I am now open to hear advices about HOW will and can our relationship WORK OUT inspite of the difficulties and potential problems wit his parents. I know it is difficult, but hay, give me a chance to try!

My questions concerns internet dating, which are best, what are the cost, advice? I am a man who would like to meet some nice ladies. I am not looking for marriage or a very serious relationship. I am flexible, just chatting, a date or two fine. Have gotten e-mails from several companies that seemed interesting. Incidentally, Yahoo Personals did not work well for me. The three companies that have offered free services are Mate 1, Engage, and Meet Big Beautiful Singles in Your Area (I like larger women). What would there be to lose to fill out a form for a trial. I am looking for low costs. Would be grateful for any thoughts, suggestions, and experience on this matter.