Speed Dating Advice Knowledge Base
Speed dating advice? Im going tomorrow night!! HELP!? Hello all, Im a guy and im going speed dating tomorrow night for the first time - and hopefully the last. Im kinda scared to be honest! The age range is pretty large 23-38......... Is there any advice that you guys can give? At least i know that all the ladies there will be single!
Have you ever got some really bad dating advice? What was it? A certain book I read told me that it is best to date several guys at one time and basically try to meet as many as possible. I tried speed dating a few months ago - went twice and also met a few guys other ways too. The problem is that I would go on one date with each guy that I met then get really confused about which one I liked and ended up being so confused I didn't like any of them. It also resulted in some pretty bad dates. I got a text message today from some guy called mark that I apparently met at speed dating and he said 'hey, its mark how are you?' and i wrote back 'Which mark? blonde hair?' . Then i was like omg what the hell am i doing i cant even remember who these people are I have to stop. I also said yes to too many people at speed dating because they seemed nice then went on really bad dates. From now on I don't want to do that - I'm not going to treat guys like fast food like this dating advice suggested. Now i cant get rid of all these randoms that i dated all at once (no didnt get with any of them) and i cant even remember them. Whats the worst advice you ever got? And do you have any decent advice for me?
I have a court date tomorrow for a speeding ticket that is 25 over the speed limit; any advice? Some details that may affect your answer: -This is my second ticket within a year -It occurred in Illinois, and I am a resident of Illinois - It was on a five lane highway where the posted speed limit is 55, but realistically, everyone goes 70 or more. - I was in a pack of cars that were all going about 80, and I simply got picked out. - I felt the police officer was quite rude and curt with me. - I am a fairly new driver who grew up overseas, and therefore was exposed to a different culture that takes a different attitude towards speeding. (this is a long shot, but maybe this angle could generate some sympathy) I know that if the officer doesn't show up, he is violating my 6th amendment right to face my accuser, and the case will most likely be dropped. I also heard that I can invoke my 7th amendment right to a trial by jury because the case involves more than 20 bucks. If I do this, it''ll supposedly be too expensive for the court to continue to prosecute me, and they'll drop it.
Good questions to ask during speed dating? Looking for some interesting questions to ask females during a speed dating event. Somethings besides the usual interests, job...any advice on what to say or talk about would be helpful too. Thanks!
Speed-dating tips????? I'm 27 and I am absolutely petrified of an upcoming speed-dating session. I've never done it before. Anyone any advice? If you find someone you can't stand, do you have to keep talking for 3 minutes, or can you ask them to stop talking?
Boyfriend going speed dating? If you found out your boyfriend was going to a speed dating event (through snooping), what would you do? Confront him beforehand, go to the event or let a friend go and make him sweat about whether the friend will tell you? It's over, but a question of how! Really want him to feel shit and come out with some dignity. Any advice appreciated.
Anyone w/ experience on Speed Dating or 8 minute Dates?? Hello.. Anyone done Speed Dating at an event or restaurant? I am trying to find an innovative way to meet a decent, normal guy. I'm in my mid 30's and not big on the bar scene or the online stuff. And I've been mostly in longterm relationships, just getting out of an 8 yr one and trying to get back out in the jungle.. Please any advice, tips or pros/cons. Thanks!
Woman advice on dating a guy with no DL? I am dating. I talked to a couple woman and they sort of lost interest in me soon as they found out i had no drivers license. I was honest with them that i would be getting it back but not untill 4-5 mo. Reason mine is suspended is from lots of speeding tickets. Woman out there!!!...woud you date a guy if he had no DL or is it a deal breaker?
Poll: I need dating advice? does it come across as tacky to take someone to Taco Bell in the Rain? I mean my 10 speed is looking new and all I am just wondering if the foot pegs get slippery when they get wet?
I need DATING ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!!? Think of this from your perspective- I am going on a date tonight And I have $122.35 This women is really special and I want to impress her with a fun comfortable warm evening. I am torn between these two ideas; 1. Take her in a Limo to Taco Bell ( everything is half off) or- 2. Take her to Le fristigee' oux (Very expensive French place) On my 10-Speed Bicycle .. It'll come out to about the same price for both- Please help me choose- Thanks in Advance! Some people said she would dump me for this! WHY would anyone do that? : [
A single male 24 years old man need some advice.? I am a single male 24 years old. I am trying to get back into the dating scene. I need some advice about where is the best place to meet women. I tend to be shy. I am tried of the bar scene. Has anybody ever tried speed dating and or online dating? If so was your experience good or bad. I have been thinking about joining a gym.
I got a speeding ticket in NJ for 26 over the speed limit. Any advice you can offer me? I am 21, a responsible, clean cut successful college student, usually the motorist the crazy people beep at and pass on the road, but this time I made a mistake while driving in an area I have rarely driven in before and should have paid more attention to the speed I was going. There was one other driver on the road and when I realized he was going slower than I was I started to slow down, but I was stopped about a minute after. The officer was fairly pleasant, but one of his colleagues stopped someone else immediately after me, so clearly they were on the lookout. I plan on telling the truth and owning my mistake and indeed showing up in court, as well as taking a defensive driver course to lower my points, and dressing up nicely in court (any suggestions as to that?) as well, but does anyone have any further suggestions for me? This is my first speeding ticket and second overall - I paid $50.00 three years ago for driving without my seat belt when I got lost one time in South Jersey. Do you think they will be able to move the court date to a Friday morning so that I do not miss any classes? I am more worried about my points that the fines - I have friends who can probably help me out with the fines and who I can pay back over time. It's the points that could really hurt. I neglected to say it was doing 61 in a 35 zone. It's in an area that links a few major roads. In regard to pepole arguing for a defense below, I appreciate the help, but I do not plan on trying to pretend I didn't go over the speed limit - in this context I don't think it would work, not to mention being dishonest, which would be pretty obvious.
Need questions for Speed dating.? I tried speed dating once and it didn't go great but I think it was because I didn't have any really unique questions that made me stand out. I haven't dated for a while and would like to get back into it. Thanks for any advice.
Single 40 yr old man seeks dating help!? Hi, I'm a single 40 year old man ~(living in the UK) looking for some advice on where to meet single women. I'm not a hermit but don't seem to meet many single people in my current circle of friends (all married now!) or at my workplace. I've tried internet dating (with no luck) and speed-dating events (no luck again). Can anyone suggest some alternative ways of meeting fellow singletons? Thanks D
What are the pros and cons of speed dating? I've been single for a while and wanna get out there and meet nice professional guys however I don't know where to go or what to do...I've never been on a "real" date before, I don't know how to ask a guy out without either coming off too aggressive or sounding too desperate so I was wondering should I give speed dating a try and what should I look for. I'm not looking to be married anytime soon but I truly miss the companionship. Also, ANY GOOD dating advice will be greatly appreciated as well.
Are you good at GIVING advice but SUCK at taking it or following your own for LOVE/SEX ? I am SO good at giving my friends great advice but I can not seem to follow my own advice or listen to other people when theyre trying to help my personal dating life. Am I the only one or is this way common ? I am currently seeing a guy who is 34 years old, hot, smart, funny and has great job/education. But is also completey EFFED IN THE HEAD. He jokes about being mean to people, he taunts me with other girls chasing him, he speeds, he drinks a lot. his last job fired him. he pines for his hot ex girlfriend (i used to model professionally so idont feel intimidated) still i havent followed the advice i would give my friends on a guy like this. I shouldve run far away from him already. How can I learn to take my own advice ? Why is this so hard ?
Going through a rough time. Advice? My boyfriend and I are going through a pretty rough time. We are both living in Germany because our parents are military. Im a senior in high school and he graduated last year. We've been dating for four years. Last year his parents retired and went back to the states and he got an apartment here so he could be with me during my last year of high school. A few days ago he totalled his car, and lost his job. He has no home phone/internet and his cell phone is broken. We're lucky if we're able to see eachother 2 times a week. (we're use to being together almost everyday) And Now his mom his pressuring him to move back to the states. Everything is just going downhill and its been really hard on both of us. Ill be graduating in five months and we plan on moving to DC together near his family and starting at a community college.. Is there anything we can do to make things a little easier? Hes working on getting a car and a job, its just hard being overseas and all and being so young. What can we do to speed these last 5 months up? ANY advice would be great (:
speeding ticket advice? i just got pulled over today on my way to cedar point for doing 80 in a 65 and i didn't have my seatbelt on. :( i think i can get out of the ticket but my court date is scheduled for while i am going to be out of town. what do you think the approximate cost is going to be and do you think i would be able to get out of the speeding portion of the ticket if i had to speed up to avoid an accident? I told the state trooper and he did not seem to care to much. i was on the highway and the lady in front of my hit her brakes hard while going around the turn because of the officer there. i was looking to make the lane change anyway so i did not see her brake lights because i was checking my blind spot at the time. i needed to speed up because i basically had to cut off another car to change lanes and it was only a 2 lane highway.
How to out a speeding ticket in Georgia? About a month ago I got pulled over for going 71 on a 55 in Georgia. (16 over). I was late getting home one night, sped up to pass someone in the right lane, and crossed over. I just recently got my court date and a fine of 125. I'm going to have to ask to reschedule my court date because I will be away, but I am definitely planning on showing up. This should put two points on my license, but I've been driving for a little less than 6 months and want to do everything possible to get those points off. Any suggestions of what to do, or comments of experience? There's always the chance of the police officer not showing up, but I'd rather not depend on that. Someone also told me I can talk to him before we go into court, and he might reduce my speed to 15 mph over. If he did, I wouldn't have two points put on my license. But, I'm also not sure if I can talk to him before hand. Advice?
will i be single forever?? never had a girlfriend before!! =( advice? i'm 23 and never had a girlfriend before! i have had a few dates but they have never worked out. not had anything else other than that! i am confident socially, and find it easy to talk to women, i just never know what point i should make a move, or what signs to look for if they do like me! i know i would treat her with respect and stuff, and i wouldn't wanna screw her over like other bad boys, but all the time i see 'nice guys' who have found girlfriends! i'm no pushover, and ive learnt from a lot of mistakes and rejections, but i still dunno what i'm doing wrong! ive tried so many ways and found nothing. speed and online dating, thru friends, clubs, bars, work, volunteering. u name it, ive tried it! i have to say, i have tourettes, but i'm always scared to tell girls this, as they make fun of it and not wanna date me! =/ i honestly do try not to worry, but i see happy couples all the time, which makes it worse! i really wanna be as happy as the other couples, and i dunno why girls just don't want me! even my mates i didn't think would find someone for a while have found someone now =/ i always wanted to save my first time for someone i love and make it special, but will it even be worth it after such a long wait? is there really someone special out there for me? or will i be alone forever? =(
Why am I single?!??!? Ok so i have tried it all. bars, speed dating, talking to strangers, internet, I MEAN IT ALL!!! whatever am I doing wrong? i am attractive, you can see my picture at my myspace myspace.com/andrewwildwood i dont think i am ugly and im really nice, and i am fun loving energetic and positive! i live alone and am 28 years old, i am a gay male and I get along with everyone! some dating advice as to how to make guys notice me, ask me out and than ask for the second date! PLEASE HELP ME THE YEARS ARE TICKING BY!!!!!
Speeding ticket advice - Southern California? Okay, I did a trial by written declaration, which the Judge probably didn't even read, and instead just checked off "Guilty" and moved on. Now I filled for a trial de novo, so I'm trying to prepare for my court date. The stupid thing about the ticket is that the exact charge on my court documents is section a of the maximum speed law which says that no vehicle shall travel faster than 65mph. The cop who ticketed me was doing at least 70 although most likely 75 and traffic was going the same speed as the officer. Can I in this case plead that my speed was safe for conditions. Isn't there a loop hole or something that if a cop breaks the law and lets others do the same, that he cannot just pick out some person randomly and ticket them. I was going faster than traffic, but not by more than 5-6mph, which is safe from a logical standpoint, however maybe not as far as the @sshole judge cares, he needs more money to pay for his third Porsche. Could I argue that it must have been safe to go faster because the officer was doing the same, and that once you are above 65mph, there is not set speed limit above that, "whatever speed is safe for conditions" is a huge gray area, and I could argue that my speed falls into that category. First of all, the speeding part... its California everyone speeds, the commonly agreed upon speed is 80mph, that is the standard speed EVERYONE does if traffic permits. I was doing 85mph. Traffic was going at 75-80mph. As far as endangering others, maybe I'm just crazy but according to my screwed up logic, I'm not endangering people, just because I'm going fast enough to pass people and because I change lanes with enough room that I don't cut anyone off and if I use my turn signals each time and if I change lanes slowly, making sure that the drivers behind me see me before I get completely into the next lane. Just because I drive better than some Asian doesn't mean I'm a bad driver. If the cop can drive like that "safely" whos to say that no citizen will ever be that good. you want proof that I'm a good driver... here it is... I have zero accidents, despite my alleged "aggressive" driving. Although the Judge will laugh at all that and move on, but then again we can't all be reasonable people... we need @sshles too to sit on chairs way the hell up, so they can look down at the common folk and be called "Your Honor" end rant. If I just plead guilty from the start, does that still give me the ability to ask for traffic school. I'd settle for traffic school if I knew I would get it.
17 and 2 speeding tickets =[ I NEED ADVICE!? So I got my first speeding ticket about 3 months ago, i got traffic school. The date for the traffic school is still valid, and i havent attained it yet. but recently i got ANOTHER speeding ticket. so my question is, what the hell are they going to do with me?...I didint even finish the first punishment and now i have a 2nd one, this one was pretty bs. Im thinking of taking some pictures and fighting it because he radared me from 3 lanes with heavy traffic, at around 11 p.m. any suggestions?..Don't say anything like "Oh slow down" or "thiers an easier way...don't speed" Yes i know these...i got caught speeding so im asking you all for advice. Is saying " I was rushing to meet curfew" a good stance also? Trooper i like what you said, but what CAN i do?! I wasn't speeding actually, speed limit was 40, everyone, includin the cop, was going 50, so he clocks me somehow at 53 in a 40 zone...thats why i want to take a picture/film to show that literally EVERYONE drives 50 thier. The first one i told my parents, i paid it off. I don't rely on my parents for paying my stuff, but this second one if i am found guilty, that is, 300+. I doubt i can pay that off...
Can you offer any advice? I am 29 and I have never had a boyfriend. I don't understand myself - I would love to fall in love, I get on brilliantly with my older brother and my 2 male flatmates but when it comes to interacting with someone who is attracted to me or who I find attractive I retreat at full speed in terror! Does anyone else experience this? Any advice? I will be 30 before the end of the year and never been kissed - I feel a real loser. I show a lot of courage in other areas of my life but the idea of dating sends me into a panic but at the same time I want to meet someone and often feel very lonely.
36 mph over the speed limit... a few questions? Today I was pulled over for going 86 mph in a 50 mph zone. I live in Florida and here 30 mph over the speed limit and over requires a court appearance. I'm 18 and I've had my license for a little over 3 months though I first had my permit issued about two years ago. I'm going to tell my dad about it tonight and I'm pretty sure that (after he throws a fit) he'll hire a good lawyer. But still, I'm so afraid that I'll lose my license. I'm going to be living alone in a few months and I really can't do anything without the ability to drive. I also realize that I might have to do driving school, which I wouldn't mind as much. Any idea on what's going to happen to me? Any advice? The court date has not been set yet.
How do I increase my reading speed, and effectively retain the information I read? I've just started university (Master's Degree) this week, and the course requires us to read several articles before each class. I'm a really slow reader and the faster I read, the less able I am to absorb the information in the article. To keep up to date (or ahead, if I'm lucky), I need to be able to read faster and effectively absorb and retain the information. I would really appreciate it if you could offer me any tips or advice that may be helpful. Thanks.
I have received a court notice for speeding I have a foreign licence, can you advice me please? I am a foreigner and have recently started living in the country as a permanent resident. I hold a foreign drivng licence which allows me to drive in the UK for 12 months from the date of my arrival. I received a ‘Notice of Intended Prosecution’ for driving 41mph within a 30mph zone and was asked to fill the form with named driver. I complying with the rules gave my name as the driver of the vehicle. I then received a ‘Conditional Offer of Fixed Penalty’ to either pay the fixed penalty or contest this in the court. I opted for a fixed penalty and filled the direct debit payment form and sent it to the Police along with my driving licence. My licence was returned along with the direct debit form informing me that this matter cannot proceed by way of fixed penalty as my licence was not issued by DVLA in Swansea, only licences issued by that authority can be dealt with in this manner and now the matter will proceed by way of a Court Hearing. I would be extremely grateful if someone could please help me by giving me some advice as to what will happen next and what should I do meanwhile.
Traffic Ticket for speeding. Need Advice.? I got a speeding ticket for going 20 mph over the speed limit in New York. I'm a young male driver and my court date is this wednesday. This is my first ticket. I know i was speeding and am willing to pay a fine (the smaller the better), however i'd rather not get points seeing as my insurance rates will increase. Is it worth going to traffic court and trying to reduce the fine / charge or should i just plead guilty by mail and accept the fine? What kind of fine should i be expecting?
Speeding ticket 30 mph over speed limit? My hubby was pulled over for driving 30 mph over the speed limit...court date is in 3 weeks, we live in TX...what should he do or CAN he do/say to keep this off his record and to lower the fees if possible?? He knows he is guilty and feels terrible regrets this...Thanks for your advice.
Speeding ticket advice.? Hey, guys, i got court comming up soon. Think anyone can help me? Im 16 and i have to go to court. No option I got a speeding ticket in a 45 zone going 63. It was 6:12 am. This was about 5 months ago. The sun was already comming out. The roads were clear. No traffic for miles(country road sorta) I was grounded for months afterward >< What should i tell or my dad tell the judge(even though its a freind of his) Here is the thing, my dad told me to plea guilty but honestly i know i wasnt going that fast. I know i was only going 55 and not 63. But should i go ahead and plea guilty? this is my 1st time EVER in court. I just dont want to lose my license. So ANY advice is great. The court date is April 3rd :/P Edit: I also was on a new anti depressant. IDK if that worth mentioning or not
how do you find the love of your life? when you tried other avenues through people (friends and family), your interests and online/speed dating? how on earth am i supposed to find him? thanks for your advice.
I have only 26 days to go till my due date what can i do to speed it up? I am so impatient i am so heavy irratiable i am so frustrated as i have 3 children under 6 and its hard to run around after them or pick up but they do pick up their toys after telling them 5 times hehe. I am going to buy some raspberry tea a bit later hopefully something will kick start labour. Any other advice apart from sex as i can as i have bad pelvis problems i am 36 weeks 3 days and 37 weeks is full term!!!!!
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