Prepare well for your first date. Make sure that you think about the place where you want to take the girl, where you want to eat, what you want to do and even what transportation you will use and more.

Take the issue of transportation seriously. There could instances wherein your expected date doesn't turn out very well. Sometimes a girl could fall short of your expectations or a guy could not be all to manly or up to par of your standards. There's no need for you to have the guy drop you off at home if you do not want him to know where you live. This is also a sign that you are not interested. If you are the guy and feel that you are no longer interested for a second date but think it's rude to not bring her home, you could probably just drop her off somewhere safe where you can be sure she can get a ride conveniently. The least you could do is wait until she gets a ride home and get the plate number of the cab she's in.

It is also best to remember that first impressions really do last. Therefore, make sure that you leave a good first impression. For men, respect the girl and make sure that you are a perfect gentleman all throughout your date. For women, make sure that you dress properly. Avoid overdressing or under dressing and avoid wearing very revealing clothes as this might leave a different first impression on your date.

If you are going to pick up the girl from her home, forget about honking! Make sure that you knock on the door and greet the person who opens it with warmth and kindness. If you are asked to come in, just sit and relax on the living room and avoid wandering because it is rude. When she comes out of her room, compliment the way she looks, greet her parents and assure them that you will bring your date home safe. Escort her to the car and open the door for her. Of course, don't forget to hand her the bouquet of flowers you especially picked out just for her.

What not to do during the first date

Do not be a show off! Avoid showing off the cash you have on hand or brag about your belongings. If you think this is impressive, it actually is a total turn off, not to mention sign of immaturity.

When it comes to conversations, be discreet and respectful. You can talk about yourself and make sure that you keep the interest of the girl hooked on what you are talking about but don't forget that she too has her own share of stories to tell. Make sure that you give her time to talk and listen attentively.